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nedum

@chigirl__

MBA'20 @UofT | Work: @BFNCommunity | Runner and track star

Joined August 2015
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Imade.
@ImadeIyamuNov 5
If you never clarify your financial goals, you can spend your life just accumulating & accumulating, watching numbers on the screen go up, never knowing what it's for or if it's enough. That's why I believe your personal vision for your life should be the starting point of any type of financial plan.
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It’s so funny when they can’t see the irony lmao
Fọlá (@lafemmefola) profile pictureFọlá@lafemmefolaNov 5
A good number of the arguments made against cohabitation can be made against getting married, and there is so much cognitive dissonance in this discourse because folks believe the marriage institution will somehow legitimize or shield them against the labor and disrespect
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saiyuri@saaacchikoNov 4
all this talk about texas turning blue got me thinking bout how i blue my chance with you when you were my maine focus. iowa you a lot. you dont have to reply, but tell your mom i said ohio. kansas
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Um actually you shouldn’t be waiting around. If they can’t do this, take it as a sign that they are not thaaaaat interested or they can’t meet your expectations 🤷🏾‍♀️
Nora (@an0rable) profile pictureNora@an0rableOct 30
The worst part of dating as a decisive high-agency woman is that you have spend so much time waiting around for a man to do something- ask for your number, ask you out, make a plan, keep said plan. And so many of them are so slow with what should be a 5 minute process max
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Small braiders in Toronto and magically getting their period the night before your appointment. I’m so tired of this shit
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So all or most men? Lmao
Iyalla (@Tamunoiyalla_) profile pictureIyalla@Tamunoiyalla_Oct 29
If the man you’re planning to marry or have children with talks about pregnancy flippantly, doesn’t understand how life-altering it is, or treats it like it’s nothing special, you better run or you will suffer lol
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if u sit n truly think about all the opportunities men take from women n girls with their behavior you'd never calm down
Bandii (@BandiiBandi) profile pictureBandii@BandiiBandiOct 27
Signed my daughter up for basketball, and now we not going, because the coach texted my phone about stuff that’s not basketball related 😒😭
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This is a no-brainer like what? 😭 anything else and you’re just a rapist and a thief 🤷🏾‍♀️
Sheepdog (@Woundedsheepdog) profile pictureSheepdog@WoundedsheepdogOct 26
So many marriages could be saved if more men understood (and had the humility to accept) the simple truth that a woman’s sex drive is deeply influenced by how her man treats her
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Your greatest asset in the dating pool will forever be your ears. Why? Because listening is one of the fastest and most effective ways to truly understand anyone. If you pay close enough attention, people will always reveal themselves. Through their words, actions, patterns, and even contradictions, they will tell you exactly who they are, what they value, and what they are capable of. Listen more. Observe more. People will always tell on themselves.
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Nkay@carlella1Oct 24
This is how they reinforce the idea that boys have some form of authority over women bodies. Can't stand women like this. Yuck!
MBF🩷 (@xostargirl_444) profile pictureMBF🩷@xostargirl_444Oct 23
Im so fucking insanely icked.
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Because sex is not something you just do. Sexual desire has to be generated and a lot of men don’t have what it takes to make their wife continuously feel desire. They think it’s automatic because their wives are married to them
. (@pinkdreamsZ) profile picture.@pinkdreamsZOct 24
i’m genuinely curious. is this a libido issue, a trauma response, or a case of sexual compatibility not being fully considered before marriage? or is there something about the dynamics of marriage itself that causes women to lose sexual desire for their partners?
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The focus on the arm and chest aesthetics while neglecting leg day <<<<<
Tobi Bakre (@tobibakre) profile pictureTobi Bakre
@tobibakreOct 22
Consistency eh!
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They always say that. That gender is sooooo….mentally inept it’s crazy 😂
Down South GA Girl 🍑 (@peachnamedgizmo) profile pictureDown South GA Girl 🍑@peachnamedgizmoOct 22
It’s actually concerning how prevalent this is. 1x a man told me it was suspicious I said we needed to share test results before he could touch me. & when I explained how stupid his logic was, because I could be fucking 20 people at 1x & he’d never know, he said he trusts me 😭
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Yall arguing with codependent, bill splitters about solo vacations. Choose peace every day.
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Popcorn I wasn’t familiar with your game
Bliss (@UBliiss) profile pictureBliss
@UBliissOct 21
This is why knowing the calories in your food matters. Some foods may look small but they contain a lot of calories without keeping you full for long.
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Getting braids soon, thank God. I don too chop eba
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Started watching The Mentalist and it brings me so much joy 🥹
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You are not the good person you think you are. You have ghosted someone who loved you. You have laughed at someone's pain. You have said "I am fine" when you were not. You have let someone down gently when they needed you to stay. You are not evil. But you are not innocent either. Stop performing goodness. Start practicing honesty. Look at the mess you made. Clean it up. That is the only redemption.
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Justice for single women chei 😔
nedum (@chigirl__) profile picturenedum@chigirl__Oct 16
Love when the Christian holier-than-thou girlies show their breast on their wedding day. Because if I show my breast at the function, I’ll get kicked out or shunned 🤣
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Love when the Christian holier-than-thou girlies show their breast on their wedding day. Because if I show my breast at the function, I’ll get kicked out or shunned 🤣
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