he disappeared when she was pregnant. fourteen years later, he wants to talk. she told me he abandoned her when she was pregnant. all of a sudden, he's here asking how they're doing and when they can sit down and talk. while she was speaking, I kept thinking where he was all those years she carried the burden alone. why did the talk only become important after fourteen years? I told her to block him. she said I was being too harsh. is she still holding space for him, or is she only thinking about her son?