Re my recent post with my “not a finsub” sub: I think people really get confused about Findom vs Femdom. I see so many people write that they can’t send or aren’t into Findom in their bio but they are actively seeking out FinDommes and FemDommes seemingly thinking that they can just skip the line and have what they want for free. Femdom does not mean free kink. I think what you REALLY need to understand is the difference between Lifestyle Domination and Pro Domination. The Dommes you see on Twitter, on OF, etc: are PRO Dommes because we are getting paid for our services. Queue people arguing about the semantics of what qualifies someone as pro vs amateur, which is a valid discussion, but that is not the point of this post! I am speaking only about paid vs unpaid dynamics. Lifestyle Dommes are often on kinky dating apps, on Fetlife, in your local kink community. Lifestyle Dommes may be in it for a romantic relationship, or they may just enjoy having subs to play with and don’t feel the need to make their hobby a profession. You cannot have a Femdom dynamic with a professional without paying for it, end of story. Even our in person service subs compensate us financially for sessions, gift us, or are at a minimum earning their keep by bringing in actual cash by being used in content. It may feel transactional to you. You may not like involving money in your kinky play. I’m going to compare it to art: you would never go to an art gallery and expect a painting for free, but if your friend is a painter and they offer to paint something as a gift….there’s a difference. You need to check in with yourself, be honest about your means and your desires, and compensate your Domme fairly, OR get out of our DMs and find yourself a lifestyle Domme.

My FinDom Achievements in the 3 years I’ve been doing this: -Emptied an entire savings account -Took whole paychecks -Maxed sub’s credit cards -Put their checking accounts in the negatives - sub funded MacBook Pro, iPhone, multiple international business class flights - sub funded (juicy) savings account -Drained your dad & ate him for breakfast -made someone’s weekly salary in one day -made someone’s yearly salary in one month Yet to Achieve: (hint: things you, as a sub, can do!) -take out a loan for me -put me in your will -have a debt contract & actually pay it off completely 🙃 -more paychecks -more savings accounts emptied -more credit cards maxed - coffee sub who actually sends coffee every day silently -silent 4 digit send

I just added a bunch of new items to my throne, most of which are very affordable, there’s truly something for every budget 💗 I am so generous to allow you to serve me and add to my bounty 😌

Friendly reminder that even though I have been busy this month my clip library is still getting new releases every week!!! If you miss me, go buy some clips and it’ll be like I’m right there with you 😋 P.S. My library has over 80+ clips, there’s truly something for everyone!

Let’s count the triggers! Latex, my titties, my titties bouncing in latex, my tattoos, my grabbable hips, my soft tummy, my red hair, my lips, my eyes, my face, my nails, my boots….am I missing anything

I got this but i was too busy to show u