you should never beg someone for an answer or to be in your life. Let their āidkāsā be a ānoā.
The real flex is healing and unlearning your own toxic patterns, coping mechanisms and defense mechanisms.
Discovering who you are, being independent and becoming your own person has to be one of the best feelings šš¼š
People will really settle for anything/anybody just because theyāre lonely, it fills a void, theyāre insecure or to impress society & and thatās really sadš©
When you start to realize a lot of people are emotionally wounded children in adult bodies, you stop taking so much shit personally
the transition from being a people pleaser & everyoneās doormat to not tolerating shit from anyone is extremely liberating.
Sometimes you really do have to give up on somebody because youāre waiting on nothing but more lies š


