Larp. Toya actually, most of the time, think whats best for people around him and not himself. And akito is not passive, he is respecting toya's choices but if it went south, he'll stop toya

Like im convinced you feel the need to call toya selfish is cuz he hurt your oshi so much that your boymomism need to make toya "the villain". The dsm brigade en community can make a whole ass journal for akito (even giving him grace about his old misogynistic stuff as-

Do op know that toya dont wanna go initially. Only cuz of natsuomi's advice, he convinced to go. He literally addressing what he did to akito, he knew it would hurt him and he is READY to carry the guilt forever