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“I can never forget what happened to me during EndSars night in Lagos”
Morayo brown shares what happened to her and her crew during End sars 💔
Big Timi not the little one retweeted
🚨 taves’ “Take Me Away” is our favorite song on his new EP. 💽🤩
Do you think his sound is made for the Nigerian audience? 🤔
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This video becomes real everytime idk why its not trending 😭😭😭xitter.cf/Sabrina__do/status/202…
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I know he’s 6 assists behind Bruno, but he’s the most creative player in the league, in a way a Bruno can’t be.
Because creativity isn’t just numbers alone, it’s type of chances you create.
Bruno Fernandes is a volume creator. He plays early, he plays often, he forces situations. A lot of his creativity comes from repetition crosses, through balls, set-pieces, constant risk-taking. That’s why the assist numbers are always high. It’s pressure over time.
But Rayan Cherki is a different kind of creator entirely.
He creates chances that aren’t supposed to exist.
It’s the weight of pass when there’s no angle. The disguised slip when defenders think the play is dead. The ability to draw three players in, freeze them, and then release the ball at the exact last second. That’s not volume creativity, that’s imagination-based creativity.
Bruno sees passes early. Cherki sees them late….. when no one else can.
And that’s the difference. Because when you defend Bruno, you’re preparing for patterns….runs in behind, early crosses, quick through balls
When you defend Cherki, there is no pattern. He can stand still for two seconds and still break your entire shape with one touch.
Also, Cherki’s creativity is tied to his 1v1 threat. That’s what makes it more dangerous. He doesn’t need movement around him to create he can generate the advantage himself. Beat a man, attract another, then create. Bruno depends more on structure, Cherki is the structure.
So even if the stats say Bruno is ahead, the reality is… Bruno creates more chances. Cherki creates harder chances,Bruno relies on repetition, Cherki relies on invention
And when you talk about pure creativity, that’s where Cherki sits in a space Bruno simply doesn’t operate in.
Big Timi not the little one retweeted
I spent 4 years paying my younger sister’s school fees. Every single kobo.
The day she graduated, she gave the acknowledgement speech and thanked everyone except me.
I sat in that hall and felt my soul leave my body 😭.
When she got admission, things were tight at home.
I had just started my first job.
I told our parents, "Don't worry. I’ll handle it." And I did.
Every semester. No breaks.
There were months I was eating 0-1-0 so her account wouldn't run dry.
I never told her. I didn't think I needed to.
Graduation day, she looked beautiful. The first graduate in our family.
I was prouder of her than I’ve ever been of myself.
Then she got the mic.
> She thanked God. (Fair).
> She thanked our parents. (Expected).
> She thanked her friends who kept her sane.
> She even thanked her HOD.
Then she sat down.
My mother looked at me. I smiled and looked away, but the clapping felt like it was happening in a different room.
I didn’t say anything that day. Or the week after.
But something in how I moved changed.
I stopped volunteering. Started waiting to be asked. Started noticing who actually noticed me.
People say, "Don’t give to be recognized." I agree to an extent.
But there is a thin line between not needing applause and being erased by the person you bled for.
That's not humility. That's invisibility.
We’re fine now. I brought it up six months later, calmly.
She cried, and said she was nervous and blanked.
Maybe. Maybe not 🤷
But I learned something either way.
Sacrifice without communication creates invisible resentment.
Tell people what you are carrying for them. Not to guilt trip them. But because silence makes martyrs, and martyrs make bitter people.
This same dynamic shows up in dating every day.
You’re playing the provider or the supporter in silence, while your partner thinks you're just an oil money that never runs dry.
Stop accepting the bare minimum of gratitude. If they don't see the sacrifice, they won't value the person making it.
Has someone ever made you feel invisible in a relationship after everything you did for them?
Let’s talk below.👇
Big Timi not the little one retweeted
The difference is that a fat man knows that he’s fat. When we call our fat male friend names like biggie, opom, they answer, they also joke with it.
A fat man will write “young biggie” at the back of his newly purchased jersey. Most fat men know it’s time to hit the gym. Fat men know the reality, they embrace it, they live with it.
Now you see fat women, they create different phrases to keep being delusional. Names like, body positivity, plus-size, chubby. When in reality we all know that there’s nothing positive about being fat, we all know how dangerous it is to the health.
Hit the gym today, Fatty
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A guy who was driving home from work showed us one funny event that happened in his presence. A campaign bus of our president Bola Ahmed Tinubu passed then a rider who also passed at the same time as the bus did this to the bus😭😂😂
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I was eight.
We had a can of Peak milk in the house, and after scooping five more spoons than I should have, I 'replaced' it with face powder.
Two days later and my mother came to my school with the can...
