the biggest proof of love isn’t necessarily how much attention a man gives you. it’s what he’s willing to confront within himself because he wants you in his life. wanting someone is easy. choosing them intentionally is different. it means facing your fears, dealing with your unresolved issues, becoming more emotionally available, protecting what you’re building, and consistently showing up. the rare part isn’t finding someone who wants you. it’s finding someone willing to do the inner work required to keep the relationship healthy.