*SPOILER FREE ZONE* ranting/live tweeting the bachelor (and LIB) here to spare everyone on main. In the pit 🌹 🇨🇦

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Why yes I do think the proliferation of Mormonism on reality tv and social media to be an indicator of society’s swing towards right wing conservatism who’s asking? #thebachelor #bachelor
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The voice in my head telling me to spend $8 on an almond croissant. #metgala #themetgala
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Situationship so emotionally devastating that I’ve set up 6 first dates for myself while he’s on vacation hoping I’ll fall in love with someone else by the time he’s back.
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I booked 6 first dates for the next 3 days why did I do that
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I’ve had a dating app for 1 week and so far: -had a guy unironically call himself a sapiosexual -looked one guy up online and found out he has a pattern of stalking/harassment. Unmatched with him only to have him follow and dm me on ig We love it here
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Guy I was having a nice convo with on hinge just mentioned he recently reread all his old Harry Potter books……………….
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I have no idea if this is real or not but PLEASE make it happen 😭😭
According to insiders, ABC want Maura Higgins to be the next Bachelorette, for a live season rather than pre-recorded.
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At this point I think it’s more important to me to get a response from ABC/The Bachelor franchise more than I care about any comments from TFP. They caused this situation by casting her in the first place. #thebachelorette #SLOMW
People Magazine: Rachel Lindsay doesn’t think the Bachelor franchise can recover from the Taylor Frankie Paul scandal. She reacted in real time on the episode of the Bachelor Party podcast, which was released on March 20, and shared her candid thoughts on whether the TV franchise can move forward. "I think it's over," she said of the franchise's future. "I was trying to think of a scenario where it could be different, because this isn't just, 'Oh, we put it all on a person. This person did this.' This is the system that allowed this to happen." "The name Bachelorette, Bachelor is tainted at this point," Lindsay, 40, said. "How do you move forward past that? You can't." #SLOMW Source: People Magazine
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Had to be done, sadly 😣😣 I hope everyone involved has the resources and support they need. #thebachelorette #SLOMW
Taylor Frankie Paul’s upcoming season of ‘The Bachelorette’ has been officially cancelled.
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Unfortunately both things can be true. His timing is likely manipulative but the actions of TFP in the video are also inexcusable. Not sure what kind of context would excuse repeatedly attacking someone near her child after they’re backing away from her. #SLOMW #Thebachelorette
Taylor Frankie Paul has responded to a leaked video from 2023 that appears to show her throwing metal stools at her ex, Dakota Mortensen, while her child is nearby. A spokesperson for Paul said: “It’s sad to see the latest installment of his never-ending, desperate, attention-seeking, destructive campaign to harm Taylor without any regard for the consequences for their child. Releasing an old video, which conveniently omits context, on their son’s birthday is a reprehensible attempt to distract from his own behavior. Thankfully, the public has seen this act before and knows who he is and sadly, many will recognize this pattern of manipulation, both in his actions on the show, and from their own experiences.” variety.com/2026/tv/news/tay…
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Image attached, likely an error, states 'leaked 2003 video.' This video was from *2023* not 2003. variety.com/2026/tv/news/t…
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I hate to say it but after the video that leaked today, I do not think this season should air. #thebachelorette #SLOMW
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Ok. This is pretty dark. It pretty clearly does not look like self defense. I do not think this woman should be on TV, especially when the premise is her finding a romantic relationship.
NEW: ABC's "Bachelorette" caught on camera allegedly attacking her ex-boyfriend and throwing a chair at him, which appeared to hit her child. The "The Secret Lives of Mormon Wives" star is reportedly under investigation for domestic violence. "The Draper City Police Department in Utah [is investigating] the allegations on both sides after a recent incident," Variety recently reported. It's unclear if the police are investigating this incident or a separate one. Paul is set to star in Season 22 of “The Bachelorette," which reportedly starts in 3 days. Insane. Video: @TMZ
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Vibe check: how are we all feeling about Bachelorette now that all these domestic violence stories are out? I’ve never seen SLOMW but I’ve been following the news and I’m finding it hard to figure out what’s really happening. #bachelorette #TFP #slomw
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I was disappointed by TFP’s appearance on GMA today. Nothing was addressed, everything was glossed over to talk about the show, which feels icky to me. 😣😣
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It seems like either a) we have a Bachelorette who has abused her partner, or b) we have a Bachelorette trapped in an ongoing domestic abuse situation as a victim. Or c) both those things are true. Hard to watch any combo of that. #bachelorette #SLOMW
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Ok why did no one tell me they’re doing a pre-Bachelorette special tonight?? Featuring literally all the Bachelorettes??? #thebachelorette #bachelorette #slomw
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Watching a whole room full of people applauding for Sean Penn, near-murderer-of-Madonna…. love to see it. #academyawards #oscar
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Are they…… the same person #loveisblind #loveisblinds10
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What a beautiful wedding 🥹🥹🥹 why did Netflix only give us 8 total minutes of screen time of them this whole season??? #LoveIsBlind #LoveIsBlindS10
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Watching this Trumper-stoic-day trading-period tracking-grifter get absolutely reamed out in front of all his friends and family was something I needed to see today. #LoveIsBlind #LoveIsBlindS10
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bittersweet knowing she’s m*g* too but I’m taking this as a win for now
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