Reducing men's use of violence in intimate, domestic & family settings. Violence against women is a man's problem.

Joined August 2018
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Get behind this campaign to speed up legal reforms for sexual assault. No more mistrials because jurors believe rape myths, and victim survivors traumatised by having to give testimony while the defendant doesn't have to speak. Victims are not trial. We need change now.
Replying to @FairAgenda
Survivors & advocates have been leading the call for change for decades. Multiple independent inquiries have recommended hundreds of specific reforms. Attorneys-General have agreed to 3 areas of reforms - over the next 5 years. Survivors can't wait. fairagenda.org/justice
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I'm tired of people equating "insight" with "safety." I can't tell you how many times I've heard professionals say "If she understood, she'd leave the relationship." Like understanding is magic. We need interventions with perpetrators & partnerships with survivors.
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Never thought it would take 11 years -Today the standards of the @coe becomes law in the UK. The UK was the 35th country in which the Convention now becomes law . There are conditions relating to Prevention, Protection, and Provision of services. @MenVSexism @MichaelGLFlood
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While it is true, it takes two to tango, it only takes one perpetrator to wage a campaign of #CoerciveControl All culpability belongs to the abuser. 💯 percent of it. Victims stay because the abuse tactics work; they brought American POWs to their knees (Biderman, 1957)
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As I've been advocating for some time - violence against women is a man's problem. Abuse impacts victims, it is a problem for victims - but it is not a victims' problem. To end violence against women & children, we must focus on reducing perpetration. illawarramercury.com.au/stor…
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It’s often very lonely out there talking about male suicide, so I was so stoked to be able to stand beside my big bro @jonnoseidler and share our story for @TheWenty. #Mentalhealth
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How should feminism be defined? I learned of a new feminist group this year, in which feminism was defined as the belief that people of all genders should have equal rights and opportunities. As aimed at equal rights for all genders. I'm troubled by these. 1/7
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Men rape women because they can, because society allows it, because men feel entitled to rape women.
Replying to @MichaelGLFlood
So why do some men perpetrate sexual violence against women? Because of gender socialisation and gender inequalities, in particular. Because of sexual entitlement and gender-inequitable social norms. Authoritative review of scholarship on perpetration: xyonline.net/sites/xyonline.… 2/3
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This week @SteveRoberts_ joins us. He's a sociologist specialising in youth and critical studies of men and masculinities. We discuss the impact that growing up with an abusive step parent had on him, views on toxic masculinity & how he broke what could've been the cycle of abuse
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Digital misogyny on the rise Research shows that misogynist online communities have increased in numbers intensity and become more extreme in the past decade. kjonnsforskning.no/en/2022/0…
How ‘traditional masculinity’ hurts the men who believe in it most. Washington Post, Jan 13 2019. washingtonpost.com/lifestyle…
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Great piece on bbc news this morning re new study showing coercive control to be the biggest predictor of domestic abuse killings. Not new information, especially given the extensive work of @JMoncktonSmith - but great to see this highlighted on the news. bbc.co.uk/news/uk-63034779
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How the Man Box Poisons Our Sons. Mark Greene lays out the price we pay for raising boys in our dominant culture of masculinity (June 2019). medium.com/remaking-manhood/… @RemakingManhood
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When the abusive person is a parent it means that they are a) betraying their “duty of care” and b) using their trusted, intimate role as a parent to supercharge their ability to create tremendous damage on so many levels #PivotToThePerpetrator @SafeandTogether #DVInformed
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“It's way past time we started doing this again.” Find out more about our pro-feminist men’s #conference, the first in the UK for 30 years, in @xyonline. Feat. @Chrisstevengre2 & @CollectiveShout. xyonline.net/content/uks-fir… #MACS22 #MenChallengingSexism22 #Cardiff @MichaelGLFlood
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Listen. Not just to the gun part but to what violence does to kids & how a FATHER chose to DO THAT to his kids.
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