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Joined November 2021
Figuring out how to maintain a high-energy version of yourself is half of the job regardless of what your goals are.
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The older I get, the more I realize that energy management is more important than time management. You can have 10 free hours and accomplish nothing. Or you can have 4 hours of high energy and make enormous progress. Protect your energy, not just your calendar.
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they dnt tell u that the conception of ur freedom starts with grief
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people give a lot of bad advice that's sorta like "just be yourself" and "no one is thinking about you" that's generally in the vein of "social truth isn't real"
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A short, spoiler-free rant on Mike Flanagan's Carrie. If you've seen it, you'll understand. -------- Carrie is not a feminist story. Carrie is not about female empowerment. Carrie is not about self-empowerment, either. If it were, it would not have ended as it did, in the book and films, because Carrie, even though she didnt feel like it, also had a choice to do better for herself. Carrie is, fundamentally, a tragedy. No one is in the right. It is a catharsis, on the one hand, for us all because we have all been wronged or bullied in some way. It is also a look at just how ugly our responses to being wronged can be. Carrie is a horror specifically because we at once feel for her and understand her, but we also understamd how there really is no justification for what happens at the end. There is no real freedom in revenge. Carrie becomes a slave to her anger and, as iconic as the original ending of Carrie is, it is both a warning to bullies as it is a warning to the vengeful. Flanagan flubs this ending in ways I can't give away, but they are a spectacular miscalculation. However, even prior to the ending, it is made clear that Carrie is being portrayed in this series as some feminist icon, or some proxy for female liberation. In my opinion, Flanagan deeply, deeply misunderstands that not all stories about angry women are stories about female liberation. Flanagan, fundamentally, does not understand the story of Carrie.
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a veces te tienen que pasar cosas para entender otras
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maybe the nicest thing about writing is that you get to meet your own thoughts later
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duele saber que para cumplir mis objetivos tengo que sacrificar mis 11hs de tiempo en pantalla diarios
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i understand there's a guy inside me who wants to lay in bed, smoke weed all day, and play old school runescape. my whole life is a series of stratagems to avoid, and outwit, that guy
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Is everyone lowkey losing it rn or is it just me and Channing Tatum
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Me hice 9 galletas de avena para que cuando me den ganas de algo dulce en la semana, agarre una. Me acabo de comer las 9.
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eu gosto muito de acordar cedo p aproveitar a manhã, e eu também gosto muito de dormir e eu também gosto muito de ficar acordada até 2h da manhã, simplesmente 3 traços de personalidade que são impossíveis de coexistirem
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when I am sad that things don’t work out with a new guy I’m not mourning him as much as I’m mourning that I am yet again forced to choose self respect over connection when I’d really like to be able to receive connection without having to sacrifice my self respect
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dropping reactivity is one of the highest ROI skills you can develop
Look the uncomfortable truth is that to build social skills you have to learn to tolerate a lot of discomfort and even embarrassment. If you can push through that you might find that you're a lot more capable at changing than you thought.
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You just know Stormzy is messaging Ed Sheeran some bullshit like "Fuck the haters bro this is God's plan 🙏🏿"
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“You were destined for me. Perhaps as a punishment." — Fyodor Dostoevsky
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damn cleaning goes so hard when you're putting off other vastly more important shit
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the fastest way to kill motivation is to make your identity depend on the outcome. it’s called ego involvement. when failing becomes failing as a person, your brain starts avoiding the whole thing. not because you don’t care, but because you care too much.
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the most commonly heard argument for reading great books is that they develop empathy. maybe that's true. but i think it's less appreciated that they also teach you humility: that you're not that smart, you're not that special, and someone has had all your ideas before
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I know you miss me too you avoidant fuck
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