He said, “I want a soft girl.” I said, “Okay… what does that mean?” He said, “A woman who doesn’t argue. Feminine. Calm.” I said, “Sounds peaceful.” Then he added, “And she must always look good.” Always? I asked, “So… are you providing the soft life?” He laughed. “Softness should be natural.” Natural? I said, “If softness is natural, is being rich natural too?” He got offended. “You girls are too materialistic,” he said. No. We’re just tired of being asked to perform luxury… on a budget. The truth? Men want soft girls the way people want private jets. They love the idea. They don’t want to pay the cost.