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Occasional writer of erotic fiction. Found my courage through my pornographer friends. 💛 Fake nephew to @ArielAnderssen 💛 #PayForYourPorn

Joined October 2016
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I am very, very excited to launch my blog/website!!! It is something I’ve been thinking about doing for some time, and after dabbling with the idea and building the site last week, I very quickly decided I wanted to do it. I won’t waffle here, as there’s a page on the site
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Silent Hill is getting more Silent Hilly.
Just cooked spaghetti bolognese while wearing a white t-shirt and think I got away without staining it. On another note, I’ve moved to Silent Hill apparently.
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Just cooked spaghetti bolognese while wearing a white t-shirt and think I got away without staining it. On another note, I’ve moved to Silent Hill apparently.
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It’s possible to disagree respectfully, she says, after labelling those justifiably and reasonably criticising these bans a “porn-addled angry bunch”, which seems strikingly hypocritical and reeks of an absence of self-awareness.
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The slippery slope is swiftly turning into a rapid vertical descent.
🚨 NEW: The Government is set to ban under-16s from eBay, Vinted and Depop over fears their messaging features allow adults to groom children
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Scores after I drop him following weeks of disasterclasses. FPL heritage.
Goal - CHERKI Assist - none Nott’m Forest 2-1 Man City (52 mins) #FPL #NFOMCI
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I’ll always rather be perceived as a raging pervert (as though there’s anything wrong with having kinks and enjoying sex and porn) than a puritanical moralist who wants to dictate what other people can and can’t enjoy because of my opinions.
This is the thing, it’s purposely been worded the way it has been in all major reporting in order to make people who DO have a problem with it sound like raging perverts. Same way anyone who supported Palestine Action was labelled a terrorist. It’s how you win the PR war
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And they’re free to have their opinions, by the way, even though they are not formed on substantive evidence or with sufficient knowledge of the industry, pornographers, sex workers, their lives, their experiences and their recommendations.
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They replied and instantly blocked me. The survey is woefully inadequate. No survey on the matter is sufficient or relevant unless actual pornographers are engaged with, and your faux morality has no place dictating the lives of others in a modern society. Grow up and be better.
How could any argument against the Great British Public be lost when there was no engagement or consultation with the Great British Public on the matter?
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How could any argument against the Great British Public be lost when there was no engagement or consultation with the Great British Public on the matter?
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How can a game created by AI, whose reference and training are based entirely on existing media, be original?
I made a full original game in 24 hours using AI Stack: Opus 5.5 + Flux 3 Max + GPT Image + Tripo + Blender + Three.js Anyone can make games now. Full workflow thread and prompt below: (1/7)
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Their front-of-shirt sponsor is literally a betting/gambling company, but they’re drawing the line at them associating with a pornstar? This faux morality against porn and pornographers genuinely knows no bounds.
Leicester City release a statement on BC Game. It follows the club’s front-of-shirt sponsor naming porn star Eva Elfie as a brand ambassador on Tuesday. “Leicester City Football Club recognises the concerns raised about recent developments involving our Principal Partner, BC.GAME. “We have raised these concerns directly with BC.GAME and are continuing discussions with the company to explore a mutually acceptable resolution.”
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Do I get a Switch 2 just to play the remake of the GOAT? 👀
Time to experience Peak Fiction once again
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A nice little walk to go and get my Covid and flu jabs.
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Why is our government doing everything they can not to help and improve the lives of its people, but rather everything they can do restrict our freedoms and make our lives worse?
UKs Online Safety Minister has announced all in-game chat will be placed behind an ID gate. Cutting of teenagers from the ability to socialise, risking the cybersecurity of gamers and driving up costs for Gaming industry gamersvoice.org/uk-gaming-re… #SaveOurGames #Stopkillinginternet
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A relative of mine is autistic and has suffered with clinical depression for most of his life. His only form of socialising is done via playing video games with friends from around the world while playing said video games.
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I hadn’t been able to find my charger for my beard trimmer since I moved at the beginning of last month and only found it yesterday, so today I am REFRESHED 🧔
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It’s not designed to discourage them at all, please be serious, as a Member of Parliament representing the British public and particularly your constituents.
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If all it’s about is discouraging such practices then discourage them and educate people about the risks, don’t OUTLAW them. Discouraging something and outlawing it are not the same.
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“All we are doing” - that’s not all you’re doing though, is it? You’re infringing upon people’s freedoms to express themselves sexually. They understand the risks involved, which is why they give informed consent to partake in, folk and consume such activities.
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How can it be possible that an actual Member of Parliament can champion legalisation when they haven’t even begun to understand what it is they’re talking about? Is the bar seriously that low?
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The problem isn’t porn, the problem is society and stigmatisation. Anyone should be able to leave the porn industry if they want to and not be stigmatised, the same way that pornographers who spend their whole working life in the industry shouldn’t be stigmatised.
P*rn destroyed my life. A former p*rn actress wanted to start a new life, but she admitted that even after leaving the industry, she couldn’t escape her past. She was making up to $60,000 a month doing p*rn. Then she walked away from it all, hoping to finally live a normal life. Five years later, she was sitting in front of a camera, crying because people still refused to accept her. When the interviewer asked how she wished people would treat her, she covered her mouth and struggled to hold back tears. She said she simply wanted to be treated like an ordinary married nurse with children in Indiana. Then she admitted she didn't believe that would ever happen. And the most surprising part? She claimed she could return to p*rn and make $20,000 in just one week. But she refused because she couldn't bear the thought of putting more videos of herself on the internet. United States. March 2016. Her name is Bree Olson. At 19, Bree was studying biology at Purdue University while working full time as a telemarketer. She had considered a career in medicine, but one day she decided to try something completely different. She flew to Los Angeles to film her first adult scene. What happened next changed her plans entirely. Bree was shocked by how much money she could make in such a short amount of time. Eventually, she dropped out of college and began pursuing a career in adult entertainment. Before long, she became one of the industry's most recognizable performers. According to Bree, at the height of her career, she was earning between $30,000 and $60,000 a month. She traveled, won awards, and enjoyed a lifestyle she once could only dream of. In 2011, she found herself at the center of a major media frenzy after becoming romantically involved with Hollywood actor Charlie Sheen. Her private life suddenly became national entertainment. Television personalities discussed her relationships, her career, and whether someone with her background could ever become a respectable wife or mother. That same year, at 25, Bree decided to leave the adult film industry. She hoped that walking away would allow her to build a new identity and finally escape the public judgment surrounding her career. But things didn't turn out the way she expected. She said employers rejected her because of her past, and people she met sometimes stopped talking to her after discovering what she used to do. Some treated her as though she were a danger to children. Bree described feeling so uncomfortable in public that she sometimes stayed inside her home for days or even weeks. And there was something else she couldn't escape. Her old videos were still online. Even though she had stopped filming, her previous work continued circulating, and she wasn't receiving royalties from those recordings. In March 2016, Bree agreed to sit down for an emotional interview with Real Women, Real Stories. She spoke openly about her career, the money she had earned, and the struggles she faced after leaving. She made it clear that she didn't believe there was anything inherently wrong with working in the adult industry. What hurt her most was the way people treated her afterward. But the most emotional moment came near the end of the interview. The interviewer asked Bree a simple question. How would she like people to treat her? For a moment, she couldn't answer. She covered her mouth as tears filled her eyes. Then she explained that she wanted to be treated like an ordinary woman with a family, children, and a normal career. She said she would be incredibly happy if people could see her that way. But she didn't believe it would ever happen. Bree later explained that she didn't blame the adult industry itself for her suffering. She blamed the judgment she faced after leaving. By 2019, she had built her own business and found greater independence. But she said her past still created obstacles, including people refusing to work with her after learning about her former career. Her story raises an uncomfortable contradiction. Millions of people consume adult entertainment, yet some of those same people believe the performers who create it should never be allowed to move on from their past. Do you think someone's former career should follow them for the rest of their life, even after they've decided to start over?
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As it often does, the root cause of the problem comes down to people, bigotry, ignorance and an absence of intelligence. The fact Bree worked in porn is and should be entirely irrelevant to wherever else she wishes to pursue a career.
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Some people do, yes. For some people - such as those who have disabilities that prevent them from leaving the house, let alone have sex with other people - porn offers them a second chance to fulfil their fantasies digitally and fulfil their sex life that way.
Do yall really need porn this badly
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Beside the fact that infringing upon the freedoms of consenting adults being Orwellian and people’s Puritanism being completely irrelevant to what should and shouldn’t be regulated, they don’t stop to think about the actual impact of such bans and legislation.
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The problem is none of this is ever discussed with actual pornographers or people who happily and consensually partake in and consume such activities. They implement broad, ill-thought-out and harmful legislation without any consideration for those who it will actually impact.
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None of this is ever discussed with the slightest consideration that consenting gay adults might exist. Everything has to be about ‘power dynamics’.
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It’s ushered in without consultation, without expertise, and under the guise of protecting women, despite women and women pornographers and their livelihoods who produce and enjoy such things being impacted more than most.
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