This one hit so bad. “You gotta send people back to the dysfunction they’re used to.” Because some people don’t actually want peace. They want chaos. Drama. The constant arguing. The back and forth. That’s what feels like love to them. Nah. You ain’t no therapist. You damn sure ain’t no superhero. You ain’t been in one Marvel movie before. You can set the standard: “This is what I expect. This is what I’m willing to give. This is what I will reciprocate.” If that ain’t enough for them then send them right back where they came from. Trying to save a grown person who’s comfortable in the mess is a full-time unpaid job with no benefits and no end date. Some lessons only get learned when you stop carrying them. Who else had to learn this the hard way? Comment a “💯” if you’ve been the one always trying to elevate people who preferred the chaos.