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You don’t have to like me or agree with my opinions. That’s perfectly fine; it’s human. There are people I don’t particularly like either, and opinions I disagree with. Most of the time, I simply avoid them and mind my business.
Every other day, this guy keeps regurgitating the same thing in my quote tweets. I usually chuckle and keep it moving. Today, I finally reminded him of the molestation allegations made against him on this app a few years ago. Suddenly, he started making threats, then quickly blocked me.
Young man, I am not someone you want to threaten on and off social media, trust me. Udo!
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Life is funny, @Dominicugo. When you arrived in the U.S. in 2024, you reached out because you barely knew anyone and did not want to feel alone at your wedding. Apparently, your wife was born here and, according to what you told me unprompted, you married her for papers after spending years stuck in Mexico and the UK.
In the spirit of nwanne and onye aghana nwanne ya, I booked a flight from Florida and rallied people to celebrate with you. At least five people I invited attended. We showed up with love, gifts, and money. I barely knew you, but kindness has never required familiarity. I had received love, and I wanted to pass it on. It is my nature to always and consistently show love. Alot of people can attest. That's who I am.
As I left your reception, I learned that Onyx had died. May her soul rest in peace. That day holds both the memory of showing up for you and the pain of losing her. Anytime I see your handle, I am reminded of her.
For months, you have responded to my views with insults and false claims about me. I can tolerate this behavior from random Twitter handles. When they are done, they will crawl back to their hole. The lies doesn't even bother me.
You have my number. Whatever our differences, we could have discussed them over a beer. I believe knowing someone beyond this app should count for something. I guess I was wrong.
You owe me no agreement, but I deserve basic respect. I never imagined that someone I helped feel less alone would turn around and treat me this way consistently unprovoked.
So I ask, if I am the person you now portray, why was I the person you called when you needed people to stand beside you, nna?
Don’t mind that guy, he can never be redeemed. Someone who married an older white woman, held his wedding on a plantation as if the venue came with a reminder of where enslaved people were expected to belong then used his green card to enlist in the U.S. Army and eventually secure citizenship now has the audacity to lecture people online.
The irony is doing backflips, and the self-awareness is nowhere to be found. @General_Oluchi come and see the typical mentality of I better pass my neighbor
having siblings really is the easiest way to notice how different people turn out even if raised under the exact same conditions 😭😭😭
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3) you should be able to say “I am okay with who I am, are you?” and not just say it but act accordingly
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2) date people you’re not ok with on a deep level (something about the way they are or how they live their life is fundamentally unacceptable to you)
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the healthiest relationships exist between two people who connect deeply on an emotional level and don’t try to control either. that means you should not
1) pick at people you date (if you’re not ok with their mannerisms, habits, friends, appearance etc you’re the problem)
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If you honestly believe all men and women are the same and that love does not exist, you are a very big fool!!!!
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This is also what leadership looks like. Being useful in any context. Man wasn't making pees, but he kept the ship running and went out of his way to be useful in the context he was in.
That is how to use your ego.
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Meanwhile if you want something meaningful and real, you’ll realize your options are in fact very limited and possibly nonexistent
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Omg yess! This is exactly how i feel!
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We cannot be echoing sentiments that legitimizes the nuclear family model—a model that sustains systems of oppression. I have so much more to say on this discourse but let me leave it here.
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present in cohabitating with men. Like if you’re against cohabitation because of the labor expected from you, you should also be against getting married and living with a man. No two ways about it. 🤷🏾♀️
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A good number of the arguments made against cohabitation can be made against getting married, and there is so much cognitive dissonance in this discourse because folks believe the marriage institution will somehow legitimize or shield them against the labor and disrespect
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Ngl, even as a female I have cut off men for the same exact reasons 🤷🏾♀️
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I have been watching this every morning for 11 months now.
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I usually don’t do this
But I bought this bag from NectarHQ in Nigeria a few years ago.
Within few days of getting the bag, the hand got torn, I tried reaching out to them to fix it, to no avail.
I said no problem and locked up.
I was at an airport in Canada few weeks ago and I saw a woman rocking the exact design of the bag. I reached out to her and she told me the bag was from Monos.
I went to their website and lo behold, it safe to say that NectarHQ in Nigeria is a rip off of Monos in Canada.
But that’s not the crazy part…I understand you can “steal like an artist”.
This is the really annoying part.
First the quality.
When I finally purchased the bag from Monos, the difference in leather is—and I’m not exaggerating—HEAVEN and HELL difference.
(I’ve attached photos and pictures)
Now it’s okay, to have shitty quality (can’t believe I said that) but what’s NOT…okay is having
1. A shitty quality
2. Absolute horrible customer service AND 3. YOU HAVE THE AUDACITY TO BE MORE EXPENSIVE THAN THE ORIGINAL???
Yes. NectarHQ’s bag is/was more expensive than their Canadian counterpart.
Like make it make sense.
Anyways if you intend on purchasing from NectarHQ, this is my own experience. I’m not saying they’re a bad company. I’m just saying in light of new information I’m further pissed with my experience.
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I feel bad for people who didn’t witness this time in music. Getting ready for school with MTV, BET and VH1 was so elite.
































