Sherikoko of Lagos☺️

Be a Submissive wife with common sense Be a submissive wife with your eyes wide open A difficult and abusive partner always leave a clue but we are always too in love to notice. Work on that I was a victim at some point too BUT the main difference was I didn't sit in the pity zone for longer than necessary and God bless my Parents for supporting me through the ordeal. Once it happens, No room for sentiments, wake up, Heal and FIGHT for you, You will let them win if you continue to stay in pity zone. Be Angry, Be Ruthless, Use that anger to Build yourself and ensure you WIN big with GOD. Leave the Kids with those who can help you and Go work as Hard and as Smart, Don't let anyone deceive You , You will need a lot of Money to get back on track My Kids were in Nija for 6 qnd Half solid years, I was doing 13 long days at a stretch, one day off and we go again! But Supplements and food Na water Sha and I was using my Gym at break time , 20minutes of rowing every single day. Yes it was Painfully Hard. I was coming to Nija every 3 to 4 months to see my Kids, Emotionally it was critical and I used anti depressants and therapy. The Kids were aged 5, 1 and 9months when I left them. You will cry , you will pray like Lunatic, You will work harder than most women around you BUT If you stay resolute you will Win with God . Divorce is not the End, Many women will make jest of You , will even call you a failure to your face and it might even be those in same religious and social circle, So you will weed out the bad ones and you will almost become Lonely! Guess what you can see through most fakes going forward if you pay attention. Finally You will Win with God and if you like punish your abuser, That's for you to decide, My Punishment for my ex was I remarried a Much younger man and sent Him the Pictures, Yes Why not! I am petty like that, I won't stop my life because one person choose not to see my worth. My last child will be 15 in January by Gods grace, He was a month old when we left, So time really do heal a lot if you give yourself the chance and believe it or Not HE is still single and unmarried 15 years later, but ofcourse Na Him Wahala be that. So remind yourself every time , I am very worthy , You are very worthy! Never allow anyone diminish you. NEVER So don't let anyone gaslight you at all. Go Heal, GO make money, lots of it, Pray every day as crazily as you can, Do counselling and therapy , its very useful, Use the anger and grief well and above all, NEVER Allow any loser that level of CONTROL over your life again. Life will never be fair for some , Get your fairness out of life, learn easy or Hard, its up to you. I wish us all well ultimately