As a relatively new father, let me tell you something for free!!! No sane man takes three months of paternity leave just to sit around playing video games. The sane dude in the video might have spent the entire morning carrying the baby… He might have driven to the mall to. run the errands, buy the groceries and purchase everything needed for care of the baby... He might have cleaned the entire house by himself… He might have made breakfast, handled responsibilities and done everything expected of him… And when he finally sits down to enjoy an hour or two of gaming, there’s now a very big problem. Most times, what bothers a woman isn’t that her husband has done nothing. It’s that he can still enjoy a little freedom while she feels trapped by the demands of motherhood. She sees him gaming while she can barely do something she enjoys without being interrupted by the baby. Lol Again, a new mother’s exhaustion does not automatically make her husband’s rest or gaming a crime. A husband’s free time should not have to disappear simply because hers has become harder to find!!! If he has genuinely contributed, fulfilled his responsibilities and made sure the baby and household are cared for, why should he have to feel guilty for enjoying himself?! I have always maintained that a husband does not have to be miserable because his wife is struggling. Fatherhood is a responsibility, not a prison sentence. And being a good husband and father should not mean giving up every harmless thing that makes you happy. A man should never have to prove that he is a good father by looking as miserable as his wife!!!! Foolish imperfect women who expect perfection from their husbands or expect them to experience the same degree of responsibility for their new baby will always end up regretting their decision to listen to third parties!!! I can guarantee that since she actually divorced, she would suffer even more now!!!