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newsletter editor @firstthingsmag | cohost Secret Third Thing pod | alumna @hillsdale | Catholic

New York City
Joined September 2021
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“As bleak as Lena Dunham’s atomized and self-obsessed morality is, it’s better than demanding everyone else conform to one’s faulty vision of justice (as became vogue in the woke era). Despite her illness and her unpopularity, she never (at least overtly) casts herself as a victim. She has the mark of a true artist in that she is unable to escape certain moral truths; after making a series of the worst possible decisions, she manages to stick the landing. This applies to her stories as much as to her own life.” I reviewed Famesick, and despite it all, I think Lena is on the right path.
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Gio Pennacchietti joins the hosts to discuss liminality. What is it? Where did it come from? Why is it scary? What does it tell us about Gen Z and America? Listen to the conversation at firstthings.com/what-is-limi…
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I was recently honoured with an appearance on the Secret Third Thing podcast where we discuss many things from liminal spaces obsession, house of leaves, and art in the 21st century, please listen, it is some of my finest work!
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Years ago, I had a dream about a strange room. I was swimming in a pool that went up to a wall with an orange sunset painted on it, but the whole thing was eerily cast in fluorescent overhead lights that made the room both overlit and shadowy. There were fake palm trees on the concrete beach behind me, and I could tell that this room was just one part of a vast complex. It was silent except for the echoing water. Some time later, I saw an image (below) very reminiscent of this dream on a Facebook page called “Liminal Spaces.” Somehow, other people knew this place. The A24 movie The Backrooms tapped into a growing online fascination with the horror of liminal spaces. On the latest episode of Secret Third Thing, we talked to @giantgio about the history of liminality in art and memes, and what it tells us about our modern era.
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I was honored to guest-host an episode of ‘Interesting Times.’ I sought common ground with a feminist pornographer. A few points of difference emerged, too. nytimes.com/2026/10/29/opini…
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Also hat tip to @VirginiaAabram @default_friend and @germansdiaz whose podcast inspired my article
In time for Halloween, please enjoy my newest essay, "Charlie Kirk and the Shadow of the Digital Doppelganger", a ghost story.
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Quickly becoming a favorite pod
“Gen Z doesn't drink,” “Gen Z are Nixonmaxxing,” "Gen Z are becoming Catholic" etc. It’s tempting to believe this sort of trend reporting without inquiry. But is it based on reliable data? @_meagan_orourke joins us on Secret Third Thing to discuss. firstthings.com/three-tiktok…
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Is Gen Z really the broke, teetotaling, trad, religious, heath-prioritizing, Nixon-obsessed generation that will usher in a golden age of the Tradwife and slay the dragon of the Girlboss all while going no contact with their parents and living in a tiny apartment alone because they’re too scared to date? Or are all these stats just “three TikToks in a trench coat” that make easy fodder for lazy journalists and activists? On the latest episode of Secret Third Thing, we had Reason Magazine reporter @_meagan_orourke on to discuss the data (or lack thereof) for these characterizations of our generation.
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“Gen Z doesn't drink,” “Gen Z are Nixonmaxxing,” "Gen Z are becoming Catholic" etc. It’s tempting to believe this sort of trend reporting without inquiry. But is it based on reliable data? @_meagan_orourke joins us on Secret Third Thing to discuss. firstthings.com/three-tiktok…
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Thank you, @germansdiaz and @VirginiaAabram, for having me on Secret Third Thing!
“Gen Z doesn't drink,” “Gen Z are Nixonmaxxing,” "Gen Z are becoming Catholic" etc. It’s tempting to believe this sort of trend reporting without inquiry. But is it based on reliable data? @_meagan_orourke joins us on Secret Third Thing to discuss. firstthings.com/three-tiktok…
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AI summary spelled egregore wrong. Listen to new episode of Secret Third Thing
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Charlie Kirk gave his life over to the internet. Now, in his death, the internet won't stop playing with his image and making a meme of him. How do we explain this? @default_friend joins us on Secret Third Thing to discuss. firstthings.com/the-second-d…
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Charlie Kirk died over a year ago, but his legacy has been dying an absurd death over and over again in meme trend called "kirkification." The reasons for this bifurcation between the online and offline memories of Kirk are complicated and strange, going beyond politcal polarization or Gen Z nihilism. Maybe it's because the internet is a mirror-world that operates under it's own rules. On the latest episode of Secret Third Thing, @default_friend joined us to explain how what was once called the realm of Faerie might be responsible the second death of Charlie Kirk.
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Surprised myself by putting Cather’s Song of the Lark on here. I thought I didn’t like it but pieces of it come to my mind somewhat regularly.
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FANTASTIC piece today by @credenzaclear2. There are foundational problems with the rationalist approach to romance, as exemplified by SlutCon. "Our society is filled with the lonely and socially awkward, a problem that the thin prescriptions of a sexual ethic built almost entirely around consent cannot address. But instead of asking whether sexual alienation might arise from the logic itself, SlutCon doubles down on the same logic, treating people as bundles of preferences, as if ever more granular binaries and flowcharts could make desire clear and manageable." firstthings.com/slutcons-emo…
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Kelly was a guest on our podcast Secret Third Thing a few months ago, and we discussed how instrumentalizing fundamentally mysterious phenomena like romance, religion, and love misses the entire point. It's a great listen :)) firstthings.com/christianity…
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