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call me dr. sarah if you’re nasty.

Saratoga Springs, NY
Joined February 2011
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When you start following someone, and they engage in slut shaming. xitter.cf/UpstanderEffect/status…
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Forgive yourself for the times words failed you, the times your silence betrayed you, the times you stayed when the warrior within wanted to walk out the door. Give yourself grace.
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found my future therapist 🤣
This is a life lesson!!!!!!!
good sex. consensual sex. loving, affirming sex 😭💘
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when everything’s going well in my life, so I have to start self-sabotaging.
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Replying to @simonefiasco
@simonefiasco made me think of you :D
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queen of dressing up for my imaginary boyfriend ❣️
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I’m that towel s l o w l y falling to the ground. xitter.cf/adealjr4/status/101602…
Tried to act cool didn’t turn out so well🤧😘
anthony bourdain comparing trump to putin 😸 #partsunknown
I’m typically quiet and let folks walk all over me, but lately I’ve been standing up for myself & giving folks feedback when I disagree with them. xitter.cf/veryann0yed/status/100…
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You’re so sweet ❤️❤️❤️😘#HappyWeekend xitter.cf/shedabeda/status/98234…
Happy birthday @UpstanderEffect!!! ❤️✨😘🔥🎉🎊🎁
why is amazon providing such great comedy?
‘didn’t think i mattered.’ damn. i feel that 💔 xitter.cf/sosadtoday/status/9533…
reasons why i didn’t say stop even tho the sex sucked: *thought something was wrong w me *didn’t want to hurt their feelings *thought it wld be easier just to get it over with *thought i was too slow to turn on *wasn’t sure what they cld do different *didn’t think i mattered
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The amount of victim blaming comments are disappointing....& triggering. Ppl still fail to understand how power dynamics impact interactions, and how some folks ‘freeze’ when experiencing trauma, as opposed to fighting or fleeing. xitter.cf/k80way/status/95232732…
I talked to a girl who says she went on a date with @azizansari in an exclusive for @babedotnet. She told me, "It was by far the worst experience with a man I’ve ever had." I believe her. #TimesUp #MeToo #AzizAnsari babe.net/2018/01/13/aziz-ans…
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*experiences trauma* my brain:
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Lived in Haiti & NYC for awhile. THEN WENT TO SO CAL & enjoyed the shit out of the weather. Now, I’m in upstate NY & it was -10 today & I’m tired 😭😭😭😭 & depressed AF 😭 xitter.cf/anthoknees/status/9498…
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Sending ‘happy new year’ texts led to folks sending me dick pics and pics of their happy family. No, thank you.
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