If I were an incel, I would simply acquire aura. Here are 16 things I would do: • go to the gym; not only to get shredded, but to regulate hormones, boost T, and earn self-respect… better yet, train some combat sport with other men • get groomed: clean nails, good smell, tidy hair, fix your skin (I’ve got a thread on how to, search the keyword acne) • learn to speak with clarity and agency-nothing repels more than mumbly resentment… stuttering = less aura • be an interesting person: go live, get out of your house, do weird fun stuff so you have stories to tell • eat pro-metabolic foods and fix your sluggishness: low energy = low magnetism/aura; if your thyroid is suppressed, your vibe/aura is too… get enough gelatinous protein, milk, eggs, sugars, minerals, salt; skipping meals isn’t sexy • work on your posture + gait; shoulders back, slow down when you walk, you’re not prey; aura starts in how you move • get your light exposure in check; sunlight in the eyes (or tanning salons if you don’t have a lot of time) = hormonal balance; doom scrolling at 3am = low T, no aura • learn to do something well with your hands: cooking… building… carpentry… a man with a craft has presence… capability = aura • regulate your hormonal system… high cortisol = clingy, paranoid, insecure, no emotional intelligence. breathe through your nose, eat enough pro-metabolic calories… fix sleep… lift weights… stay on top of your mineral needs… get out of the house and touch grass… get some sun… your aura can’t shine through if your body thinks it’s literally dying • take your phone less seriously… no woman is interested in a man who’s glued to doomscrolling and anonymous fights… go read a book… reading is sexy and a well-read, well-spoken man is the definition of sexy • dress like you’ve thought about it for more than 4 seconds… it doesn’t have to be designer; just wear clothes that actually fit you…no weird proportions, no oversized high school vibes unless it’s intentional…. take your stuff to a tailor if you must… gorgeous silhouette = aura • learn to enjoy your own company…needy energy is not attractive. solitude = power. go on walks alone, take yourself to a café, read something that isn’t twitter. being comfortable with yourself is magnetic • build a mission that isn’t about impressing women…real aura comes when you’re focused on your own lane. a man who’s dialled in on his craft, training, purpose is the one people feel in the room…..attention chases momentum • know when not to speak…overexplaining, arguing, defending everything = low agency…. people with presence don’t have to behave like rats…let others scramble to interpret you; it’s more powerful • forgive your parents and stop trauma-dumping online…resentment is silly and not magnetic… aura is direction, action. heal privately&integrate it…don’t let your pain become your personality... • stop hating women lol I promise you, no girl ever fell in love with a man who secretly resents her…maybe you were told that indifference or low-key contempt is attractive…it’s not….what actually melts us is when a man we like clearly likes us back…not in a simpy, no self respect way, but with real warmth, interest, DELIGHT….adoration (when it’s earned and mutual) is magnetic… huge aura…bitterness makes you unattractive Go forth and prosper, my dude. Give it 3 months of fixing your vibe, and I guarantee you’ll meet a great girl who’ll be absolutely stunned by your magnetic aura.