Immediately after discovering my husband’s cheating, I had the strong inclination to call for a Pap smear and STD check. I was walking back to my car and the thought stuck like a lightening bolt. Call now, not later, right now. Right there in the parking lot, an hour before the clinic closed, I called. Because I wasn’t due for several years, I was told it’d be months for an appt, but she could put me on the cancelation list.