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BadMan Cyph retweeted
Men, I hope you see the memo 📋.
Unless you are earning between ₦1.5M-2.5M, you have no business dating a “Nigerian woman.”
But if I’m the one who tweeted “Nigerian Women” you’d see some e-clowns 🤡 telling me “don’t GeneRaLizE.”
BadMan Cyph retweeted
9ja women: "Men are initiators. Women are reciprocators. Men lead, women follow."
Men are paying half the bills. Reciprocate by paying the other half of the bills.
9ja women: crickets and lamentation.
BadMan Cyph retweeted
Following that same logic, if a man is fully capable of handling domestic chores such as cooking and cleaning why should he take on the added responsibility of caring for a partner when he can manage those tasks independently?
This 50/50 discourse is hilarious because men are finally realising that women don’t necessarily want them badly enough to take on the stress and responsibilities that come with relationships.
If I can pay my bills and afford my lifestyle alone, why would I add the emotional labour of nurturing, catering to, managing and accommodating another adult, only to still split bills?
BadMan Cyph retweeted
This is well said. The reason I said infidelity is always the fault of both parties is that, after a decade of coaching clients, thousands of couples I spoke with complained about the same main issues:
Women reach menopause and no longer want sex, or even younger women who get their ring and security and stop having interest in sex.
It’s a well-known statistic that women in long-term relationships have less interest in sex. It’s not fair.
I know of so many couples that had sex only 1–2 times a year! And when the man cheats, he is labeled the worst.
I think a man who has sex withdrawn from the marriage has the right to cheat. You don’t always want to go through a painful divorce and years of battle.
You might as well enjoy sex elsewhere and still be a good companion or a “roommate” for your partner.
There were also cases when the man lost interest in his wife, but that was extremely rare.
A wife doesn’t get to decide, quietly and unilaterally, that the sexual marriage is over while expecting every other part of the arrangement to continue indefinitely without discussion.
She doesn’t get to turn her husband into a roommate, provider, co-parent, handyman, emotional support system, social escort, family representative, and faithful companion while treating his desire for his own wife as some embarrassing character flaw he needs to outgrow.
BadMan Cyph retweeted
“I know I’m not married but I’ll get married someday and even if I don’t get married, I don’t care”
Ma, you care baje!!! You desperately crave that someone will take care of all your bills. That’s why you are angry. Go and work hard.
BadMan Cyph retweeted
You're not trying to understand anything. You're just being clever by half. Just say you don't want to be financially responsible to your own family, with your chest. Your 2nd paragraph gave you away. The remaining paragraph is just you beingba Nigerian woman. See lamentation.
Do you need to live abroad to understand that relationship is 100/100? That you have to give everything you have to it.
If you even have to ask this stupid question, it already shows your mindset towards relationship. Go and sit down
Can someone educate me, please? Nigerian women living abroad, whether married to or dating Nigerian men, how exactly does this 50/50 arrangement work?
Do you split everything financially down to the last penny? And do the men also split household responsibilities 50/50? Chores, cooking, cleaning and everything that comes with running a home? Or is it just the bills that are expected to be shared equally while the responsibilities at home remain largely on the woman's shoulders?
I genuinely want to understand because I don't live abroad, and I don't understand the dynamics behind all this 50/50 debate that's been dominating my timeline.
I also want to believe that some Nigerian men living abroad are married to Nigerian women or are in relationships with them. Do your wives split the bills 50/50? Do your girlfriends contribute equally?
And if some women come out to say they don't believe in splitting bills 50/50, why does that suddenly become an excuse to drag and generalise all Nigerian women? That's the part I don't understand.
Now, because of this same argument, foreigners have joined in to insult and generalise Nigerian women, and some Nigerian men are happily clapping along.
Well, I'm not surprised. Anything to drag a Nigerian woman, anything to disparage, degrade or humiliate her, and some of you are right there, eager to join in. Put all Nigerian women under one tweet and watch how excited some of you become.
Some of you will eventually marry Nigerian women. Some of you already have Nigerian wives. You have mothers, sisters, female cousins and other female relatives. Yet you find it so easy to insult an entire population of women because of the actions or opinions of a few.
We all know that not every Nigerian woman thinks or behaves the same way. So why is it so difficult to make that distinction?
Honestly, the level of excitement and the kind of erection some of you have been getting from this gender war over the past few days is something else.
Some people genuinely enjoy having a reason to hate and insult women. Keep being the idiots you are. Some men are just completely off it for me.
BadMan Cyph retweeted
It’s time to have a honest conversation that Tasha was a horrible wife. He wanted to stop selling drugs & she told him no. Tasha had her son selling drugs through a daycare.
Tasha was the demise of her family
BadMan Cyph retweeted
You guys are shitting on her, but what you fail to understand is that there are many Jessica Pins in this world who are Millennials & Gen Z. The only difference here is that Jessica was willing to publicly show her mental illness.
You people have no idea how brutal the female mental health crisis is, the longer a woman waits to have a child or husband, the more she starts to lose her fucking mind.
An older woman like Jessica here who is 40 years old bragging about men in their 20s hitting on her is like a 45-year-old rich man bragging that a 25-year-old Instagram chick wants him for “love” and not for his money.
Every single guy in his 20s knows that older women are easy to sleep with because they’re desperate for a relationship, and not because they are "hotter than women in their 20s".
BadMan Cyph retweeted
The nonsense we do with our Nigerian men, we can't even try it with white men.
An African man was trained to cater for his family; oyibos weren't trained like that.
You will share that bill, sis. They are not even ashamed to ask for your share because they see it as a normal thing adults do.
I am sure the lady is talking from experience 😂😂😂😂