100%. Very few people, especially a solid friend group or someone in it, will stop you and be like “but yeah you also did or might have done A,B,C which might have caused…” without making it seem like they taking sides of the person they don’t even know. Tough work.
Sheesh.
We've never been the couple that makes it look effortless. We've had disagreements that left both of us exhausted, silences that stretched longer than we intended, moments where loving each other felt more like work than magic. But I've stopped expecting a love that doesn't require effort.
I've learned that the realest kind the one that lasts isn't the one without conflict. It's the one that survives it. You've seen me stubborn, defensive, too proud to apologize first. And still, you stayed not because it was easy, but because you chose to, again and again. I've watched you at your worst too moments where patience ran thin, where frustration got the better of you. And I held on, not out of obligation, but because I understood that love isn't about avoiding imperfection. It's about staying through it. This love isn't a fairytale. It's something sturdier built from all the uneven parts we've learned to work around, instead of pretending they don't exist.
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It's a different kind of pain watching someone give another person the tenderness you spent months begging for. You start wondering whether they finally learned how to love, or whether you were simply the person they never felt the need to try for.
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Everyone is my life knows me so well to the point that I don’t even have to say anything for them to understand what I’m saying or feeling
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pattern recognition is a lonely gift. by the time everyone else finally sees it, you’ve already been called dramatic, negative or crazy for pointing it out.
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Faking being okay with someone after finding out what they did behind your back is hard. You can never see them the same way again
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Replying to @Zenovibez
Whatever you did. You have to be accountable for how you made someone feel or what you did to them…
If you can’t face what U did…. You never grew. Time just went on
Most times over communication is seen like wanting control over your partner and not genuine connection,constant updates, addressing every single matter Some things are better left unsaid tbh…It gets tiring at some point
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dating as an adult is realizing someone’s whole life can be fully developed while their emotional maturity is still buffering.
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like i love you enough to want to have this conversation with you.
When someone disappears completely after a breakup, it doesn't necessarily mean you never mattered, sometimes, it means they've accepted the ending, processed the loss privately, and chosen not to revisit what they've already made peace with.
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Hiroshi Tsuchida, voice of Grisha Yeager in 'ATTACK ON TITAN,' has passed away at the age of 54 due to heart failure
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10 years ago today, the Nintendo Switch was originally unveiled as Nintendo's next home console following the Wii U, set for distribution in March 2017. The first look preview trailer for the Nintendo Switch can be watched below.
Be among the first to discover #NX. Watch the Preview Trailer at 7am PT/10am ET!
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i’m actually very romantic. i just need you to be consistent long enough for my nervous system to stop treating you like a threat






























