creative anxious brain. creativity and joy under capitalism. #BlackGirlGoodMood 🧘🏾‍♀️📲 💓

Joined April 2021
This is why modern parenting is like prison. This mindset just straight up didn’t exist 30 years ago. My parents left the COUNTRY for multiple weeks and left me and my brother with my grandma and we did not die or even care lmaoo
There is a season for weekend getaways with your friends but it's not when you have young children
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everyday people log on this website to let everyone know that they are bad friends and generally miserable people. not me tho, I’ll be picking my friends up from the airport, letting them crash on my couch, and going to their birthday trips bc my life is filled with love and joy
Pet peeve of mine is adults that make a very big deal about their birthdays & expect that their friends are obligated to participate
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That keyshia cole shit really ain’t funny to me
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People think I be flirting with them whole time I’m literally just making you feel human and accepted.
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That’s the problem. The kids became adults and still wanna show up empty handed like kids and want grannies and aunties to foot the bill on fixed incomes.
IDGAF how much groceries are, this is some nasty shit! Everyone contributes by bringing a dish but charging $25? Yea we are cooked
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as a single childless woman, you can show up for countless bridal showers, weddings, baby showers, kid's birthday parties, anniversary dinners etc. but if you want even a modicum of reciprocation suddenly it's mortifying and beyond the pale. lol ok.
My friend wants to plan a couples, no-kids weekend getaway, splitting the cost of a large AirBNB, in January for her 30th birthday. I really do not love this idea (husband is mortified), neither to spend the money nor to get someone to take the toddler for 3 days. It would be a 2.5 hour drive away for us, too, so it’s not like we’re close if something happens. I haven’t been away from him for even 1 night yet and he still just seems so young! It would be very hard to leave him for that long. Am I just a party pooper who needs to get over it? Genuine question. Like I actually need advice here guys
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It’s sad that it’s only one rapper living like this… This is the ultimate rapper lifestyle and it’s like they all choose drugs
Drake leaving New York on Air Drake 👀
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You can literally call indie venues, do a door deal, joint promo and put together a tour. It’s on you and your team. There is no excuse. You are not starting off for money. There is none. You have to build from zero. Good shows, merchandise, consistency, great openers. Repeat.
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he is pink because he loves breakfast
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i love when its nighttime in my apartment building like aww its like one big sleepover
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I’m sorry but I love Doja Cat 😭 I don’t be diving into her personal life, just enjoying her music and whatever pictures I across and any stage videos I might see. Like as an artist, she’s really in her bag
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I heard a woman talk about her half siblings from affairs as “the physical manifestation of my mother’s pain”
I can now talk about this since time has passed. My late friend was an affair kid and I remember how she tried reaching out to her siblings and dad and they all blocked her. When she died from an accident, I informed them of her passing and not even her dad came to the burial.
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Diabetics have been on these for almost 20 years
Does anyone know the long term effects of these weight loss drugs? I’m scared for this generation.
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we cookin up antibiotic resistant adhd
THE FUTURE IS HERE
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I honestly think a large part of why people were skinnier in 60s and 70s America is that food was just worse and the idea you should enjoy all your meals was just not important to most people.
the way nothing will humble you like vintage shopping and 60s/70s sizing
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Same here. Also, if you only need a favor, skip the fake greeting or ‘checking up’ and go straight to the point. If I can help, I will.
Idk about you guys, but I'm okay with people texting me only when they need me.
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We need some kinda varsity internet where teenagers can argue their hyperbolic opinions based on their limited world view amongst themselves so I can stop seeing dumb Obsession takes and derivative cancel campaigns from iPad babies who now have anime pfp accounts and an iphone.
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sorry but we’re way past this now and have been for a long time. if you work in an office you will use AI. it is a tool that you are expected to be familiar with. this applies to everyone, the competent and incompetent alike. we are all in this new world together, like it or not
My theory about corporate AI psychosis is that AI is most appealing to people who aren’t good at their jobs. AI slop looks incredible to them because they’re so incompetent they don’t even know what good work looks like in the first place.
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Once you realize that there’s quite literally nothing you could possibly need in TJ Maxx and Home Goods, that’s when the shopaholic healings begin
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Awwwww that’s so sweet! And I still won’t be doing it.
I fucked a woman on the first date. Ended up marrying her. It didn’t work, but definitely not because we fucked on the first date.
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