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1️⃣ Poaching in youth sport happens more than we like to admit.
↳ It is not always malicious, but it is always a signal.
A coach does not go hunting for an “experienced U7 right back” unless the environment has started valuing outcomes over development. Grassroots becomes fragile the moment it starts acting like a recruitment business.
2️⃣ The language gives it away.
● “Need a U9 keeper who can play with both feet”
● “Looking for an experienced centre mid”
● “Must be top division standard”
↳ That is not grassroots language, that is selection language.
3️⃣ Grassroots is meant to be inclusive and equitable.
Local access. Local belonging. Mixed ability. Appropriate challenge.
If a child has to travel 30 to 50 miles to play “grassroots”, something has gone wrong with priorities.
4️⃣ Mini-academies in grassroots are not a pathway.
They are often an imitation of a pathway, without the safeguarding, support systems, and accountability that proper performance environments should have. They create a pecking order early, and the game becomes smaller for the children who need it most.
5️⃣ Why do coaches poach?
➟ Because they feel judged every weekend.
➟ Because they link self-worth to results.
➟ Because they fear losing status, league position, or influence.
➟ Because it is easier to recruit a solution than coach one.
6️⃣ Coaching is building the player you have.
Poaching is the deliberate selection of players.
One is development.
One is insecurity dressed up as “standards”.
7️⃣ Mixed ability squads are not a problem to solve.
→ They are the job.
It is a skill to stretch the strongest without discarding the latest developer. It is a skill to adapt practices so everyone can participate meaningfully.
❤️ That's coaching.
8️⃣ If a player outgrows the environment, there is a proper route.
‣ Extra challenge within the club, where possible.
‣ District, county, performance programmes.
‣ Academies for families who can commit.
Those pathways exist for a reason, so grassroots can stay a foundation, not a talent-hoarding environment for adults.
9️⃣ What gets missed in the poaching mindset.
When you chase “ready-made” players, you stop learning how to develop.
The coach improves more slowly, depending on those "better players" to "win games". The team becomes dependent on recruitment. If we lose, let's poach better players, and the cycle continues.
The environment becomes anxious and fragile because every season becomes a rebuild.
🔟 What good looks like instead.
🔥 Develop the players you have.
🔥 Keep football local where possible.
⭐ Compete properly, but not at the cost of community access.
If you are a coach who embraces mixed ability and keeps every child in the game, you are doing the work that actually matters.
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Suicide.
I'm choosing to be deliberately blunt and provocative in this post because it's necessary. Government, charities, football clubs are all pushing water up a hill in highlighting what is undoubtedly a major health crisis.
You take a rope.
You put it up in a garage or a tree nearby or far away.
You're thinking about every loved one you'll leave behind as you put that rope around your neck.
Then you drop.
Some are decapitated.
Some aren't.
All are found by someone who has a lifetime of trauma that will never leave them.
A son.
A daughter.
A brother.
A sister.
A mother.
A father.
I know 2 men who hung themselves.
One was found by his Mom.
One was found by his brother.
Neither have recovered fully. 20 and 30 years on.
A life sentence for people who were already worrying, terrified their loved one may do something.
So just visualise the above and ask, "is there another way"?
A segway for a moment.
I do a few Q&A's every year. Tales of yesterday with a 99% male audience of my age group.
After the stories and fun, my last question back to the audience is..
"Hands up if you struggle with a mental health issue".
Nobody ever puts a hand up. Despite 1 in every 3 of 500 attendees statistically struggling.
"Ah, nobody, that's fucking brilliant! Well I do! ". I then graphically tell people, stunned into silence about how a rope around my neck in the middle of nowhere jolted me to go home and cry like a baby to my Mom.
After the Q&A has finished, something always happens. I'll be chatting to a few guys, saying bye and one by one, men will come over and whisper " I struggle".
Or my mailbox the next day will have 30 emails from guys, their partners or kids saying " Dad/Uncle /Brother was there last night and what you said hit them hard".
And that's how some people realise that it's time to speak to a pal or family member or even rant to me in an email. It works, I often get a follow up email a year or 6 later saying that they took responsibility for their suicidal feelings and are now flying.
Humans are programmed to want to live, to have families and to keep the species growing and thriving. So for a human to want to short circuit that desire isn't normal, and it should never be spoken of as normal. It's the ultimate red flag.
If you suspect your mate, Dad, Brother, Uncle is struggling mentally, they deserve your intervention.
They deserve a " are you OK, please tell me what's up".
They deserve an opportunity to get past wanting to hang a rope over a tree or in a garage and slowly struggle until they die and you find them.
If you've been there and trust me I have plenty, then you'll know that text out of the blue, or a footie mate or one of your kids asking jow you are can open the curtains to some sunshine.
Because when suicide is your only answer, the room is already dark, and you can't see a way out.
So please, fucking pretty please, ask that husband, Dad, Uncle, Cousin, footie pal TODAY how they are.
You may be shocked what comes back but extremely glad that you asked.
For those who struggle, you're not alone.
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Recruiting isn’t coaching.
And building a winning youth team by poaching players?
That’s not leadership.
That’s insecurity in disguise.
If you’re whispering to a child on another team, telling them they’re “too good” for their mates, you’re not helping them grow.
You’re feeding your ego.
💡 Real coaching?
It’s developing the child who’s behind.
It’s giving the quiet one a voice.
It’s building something, not buying it.
And the ones who preach respect while undermining others?
We see you.
And more importantly, the children do too.
📌 Development ≠ recruitment.
Let’s raise the standard.
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Must watch speech by @GreenJennyJones on the state of our economy and society 👏
If you watch one thing today, make it this ⬇️
"I think we are in a terrible mess in this country. And this budget, actually, it doesn't do anything for it
"And it's not really even a debate at all, because we've got two parties arguing over the same set of policies, while the general public see their taxes misspent on a mix of corrupt contracts and privatized services"
"It doesn't seem very fair, really"
"The reality of the UK today is that a lot of hardworking people get paid less than they were a decade ago, while the very richest get even richer"
"There's been no austerity for conservative party donors and the friends of cabinet ministers. They came out of COVID richer as a result of fast track PPE contracts. And now, of course, they're paying less tax with fewer regulations"
"And the ability to stir away their money in offshore trusts and Brexit has failed to benefit Cornish fishermen or voters in Sedgefield, Rexamore Lee"
"And levelling up is an excuse that enables the government to channel public money to marginal conservative seats"
"The whole Thatcher project has failed, yet politicians of both the two major parties treat it as sacred texts"
"For example, North Sea oil and gas has made Norway one of the richest countries in Europe from the 1980s onwards, with an oil fund worth approximately $1.4 trillion. Revenue from this fund accounts for a fifth of government spending. And the UK should be even better off. But we handed it all over to the private sector"
"So the result is energy customers being ripped off in the last two years with record high energy bills and record high profits for the oil and gas industries, instead of coming out of the last 50 years with a thriving economy, we live in a country where things are
falling apart and nothing works"
"Anyone who walks around towns will see the lack of investment because councils are struggling. They're going bust up and down the country"
"The NHS waits are getting longer, dentists can't be found"
"And these headline tax cuts will do nothing to reverse the decades long real terms wage freeze that most workers have faced under successive conservative governments"
"And you have to ask, where did all the money that we had when Margaret Thatcher took power, where did all the money go?"
"And of course, we have 171 billionaires now, which we didn't have before, which is obviously something we should all be proud of"
"But you have to ask, why isn't a wealth tax the number one priority for both parties, especially the Labour party, at the next election?"
"It would enable this country to finally invest in large scale renewables and the insulation of homes"
"And a wealth tax, of course, could deliver cheaper energy and lower bills, which is exactly what the majority of us need"
"Rail privatization has led to far higher fares at a time when the climate crisis dictates that we need lower fares, more trains, fewer cars and water privatization has given us sewage in our rivers, higher bills and a collapsing infrastructure"
"Plus, water bills are due to go up another 125 pounds on average this year to generate the 56 billion needed to fix our leaky pipes and overloaded sewage system"
"And oddly, that's a very similar amount to what the water companies have paid out in dividends. They took the money and they didn't do the work and I don't see any sort of penalty from that, from the government. There's been a few fines, but they pay those really happily. And what we should be doing is actually, instead of asking for fines, we should be taking shares"
"The solution to our economic decline is not privatisation of the NHS or anything else"
"It's public ownership of railways and water and the NHS and an end to taxpayers being ripped off by dodgy contracts"
"The Green Party wants this country to have its future back, and that means really change the way that we manage our economy and the environment that we live in"
"And it means clean water, clean air and clean politics"
"We are in trouble as a human race and somehow nobody seems to get this. They just don't understand the urgency, see, of what we have to do"
"And so I would argue that this budget, I mean, fairly useless, really, and I look forward to sharing the Green party budget with everybody so you can see what good ideas look like"
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𝗔𝘁 𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀, 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗲 𝗼𝗯𝘃𝗶𝗼𝘂𝘀 𝘄𝗵𝗲𝗻 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗶𝘀 𝘀𝘁𝗿𝘂𝗴𝗴𝗹𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗼𝗽𝗲, 𝗯𝘂𝘁 𝘀𝗼𝗺𝗲𝘁𝗶𝗺𝗲𝘀 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗶𝗴𝗻𝘀 𝗮𝗿𝗲 𝗵𝗮𝗿𝗱𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗽𝗼𝘁.
Check in on those around you.
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The final sea shanty of the trilogy 🎶⚓️(an adaptation of #Wellerman and #DrunkenSailor) inspired by @SuellaBraverman's recent speech on migration.
We stand and sing in solidarity with a different vision from #Braverman's of what our country stands for & who it should stand by🧡
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From stereotyping to lack of confidence, the obstacles that girls face often lead to them dropping out of sports and miss out on learning valuable life skills like teamwork, leadership and resilience.
We, alongside @StanChart, say stay on the pitch and stay in the game 👊
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Can’t wait to say those immortal words this weekend, the words that strike terror into the hearts of every living being within a 1 mile radius....
“CAN ANYONE RUN THE LINE”
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