GO SIT FOR ONE DAY IN A DIVORCE COURT. YOU WILL NEVER LOOK AT LOVE THE SAME WAY AGAIN I dare you. Just one day. Go sit in the back row & watch what happens when love dies & paperwork begins. You will not see a single woman in there begging for love back. You will not hear one woman say "I want my husband back, I want my family back, I want us to fix this." You will hear numbers. "How much?" "How much is the house worth?" "How much is in the account?" "How much can I get every month?" That is it. That is what it turns into at the end. And then look at the men. Look at the men sitting on the other side of that same courtroom. Broken. Quiet. Hands shaking. Eyes empty. Still in love. Still trying to process how the woman he built his entire life around, the woman he would have given his last breath for, is now sitting with a lawyer calculating his life like it is a business transaction. That image will change you forever. Because in that room you learn the most brutal truth about love that no one tells you when you are young. Men love. Women calculate. Men are in love. Women are in business. A man in love will lose everything & still be worried about her. A woman in business will take everything & still make herself the victim. A man will sit there and lose his house, his savings, his kids, his peace, and in his head he is still thinking "But I loved her, how did we get here?" A woman will sit there & take the house, take the savings, take the kids, take his future & in her head she is thinking "I deserve more." This is why I tell you to protect your peace. Protect your time. Protect your resources. Protect your future like your life depends on it. Because it does. You are not just choosing a girlfriend. You are not just choosing someone cute to post. You are choosing who gets access to your energy, your purpose, your blood, sweat and tears. You are choosing who gets the power to destroy everything you spent ten years building in ten minutes in front of a judge who does not know you, does not care about your love story, only cares about the papers. The wrong relationship does not just break your heart. It will cost you your peace so you cannot sleep at night. It will cost you your time so you lose years trying to rebuild. It will cost you your finances so you start from zero again. It will cost you your future so the man you were supposed to become never even gets to exist. One wrong woman can do all that. One wrong decision can erase everything. So choose carefully. Not with your eyes. Not with lust. Not with loneliness. Choose with wisdom. Choose with your future in mind. Choose like your peace, your time, your money, your legacy are on the line. Because they are. One day in divorce court will teach you what ten years in a relationship never could. Men fall in love and stay in love until the very end. Women fall in love with the benefits and when the benefits end, the love ends. And you will see it with your own eyes. Women will destroy you if you don't understand them. If you can't read them, you can't lead them. And if you can't lead them, you're at the mercy of their chaos. Let the truth be told.