Clinical Psychologist by day | Cooking, eating by night | Mental health, real talk & comfort food

Joined November 2024
not everyone deserves your empathy. here’s why:
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A lot of couples don’t actually have a communication problem. They have a ‘follow through’ problem. Because I’ve seen this so many times, where one partner is clearly saying, “this hurts me,” explaining it properly, not expecting mind reading… and the other person is like,
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But there should be effort to remember. Like, “okay this matters to them, let me be a little mindful next time.” That is basic consideration. So yes, if someone has told you something hurts them, and it still keeps happening again and again, it’s not just forgetfulnes
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at that point. Something is not being prioritised. And if you're the one repeating yourself... it makes complete sense why you're so drained. You're not asking for too much. You're just asking to be kept in mind.
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I want to buy a simple black laptop backpack(branded-durable). I started strong with the scrolling thinking I’ll confirm one in 15-20 mins. Liked few, sent the links to my brother for thumbs up(he’s really good at recommending things online). realized that the laptop compartment-
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of the bag I selected was good for nothing. So I started again, scrolling. sent few again to my brother he said no. it’s been 3 hours now, i couldn’t find one good bag. my phone is gonna die soon and i’m tired, exhausted and frustrated 😭😭
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Some yummy kadhi
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Have some biriyani w me to celebrate the win🤭
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Here begins the PsyD Clinical Psychology grind!! #grateful
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The anxious feeling while waiting in the queue to write the entrance exam, for which you had studied so hard for the last whole month, is OVERWHELMING
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late night pani puri (i made it from the scratch. forgot to click pani’s pic) craving hits hard.
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I love my steel plates. what i’m eating is a chicken dish. i made it. so i haven’t given my dish a name but just know that it’s yummy. the lachha paratha is from a restaurant though.
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When someone’s venting to you, what do you usually do?
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I’ll just leave this at it.
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