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I don't think I'm doing a good job communicating my view, so I will try to do better in this post.
My view is shaped by over 15 years of writing about fashion (including the effects of fast fashion), reading @wdavidmarx's book "Status and Culture," and private conversations with technologist @quintendf. I will incorporate each of these influences as I make my argument.
Let's put AI aside for now and talk about fashion, where I have better footing. We can start with a basic question: why were slim-fit pants considered good in the early 2000s, but bad today? The simple answer is because fashion moves through a lifecycle.
In the early 2000s, wearing slim-fit pants signaled that you were on the edge of culture. Perhaps you bucked gender norms, read Details Magazine, and drew inspiration from youthful European fashions. After all, this was a time when designers like Hedi Slimane and Raf Simons sent ectomorphic models marching down the runway in skin-tight clothes. And nands like The Strokes and The Libertines gave the style cultural relevance.
Over time, the meaning of that look changed as it spread through the market. In the early 2000s, skin-tight pants looked cool because they signaled gender rebellion and rock-and-roll. But as it got mainstreamed through Mad Men and J. Crew, it became increasingly normalized and sanitized. Today, it represents the opposite of what it did in the early 2000s — gender conformity, out of touch, corporate drone. Also whatever Andrew Tate represents.
This is the basic dynamic that drives fashion forward: people with low cultural capital copy people with high cultural capital, and then people with high cultural capital move on to distinguish themselves. This dynamic has been observed and remarked upon for hundreds of years, including by Bernard Mandeville (1714), Georg Simmel (1902), and Pierre Bourdieu (1979).
This is why we're seeing a swing back towards baggier pants. People who put a lot of effort into improving their cultural capital don't want to look like everyday office drones, political interns, or Andrew Tate.
Although, many astute fashion writers have remarked on a backlash to the backlash. Prada recently sent models back on the runway in slim-fit pants, probably because every male fashion influencer on Instagram nowadays is wearing the same look (e.g., cropped top, big pants, 70s hairstyle).
Now let's look at the fast fashion industry. Fast fashion isn't bad just because the clothing is low quality. It's bad because it speeds up the trend cycle. In the distant past (say, pre-20th century), styles used to last at least a generation, if not more, because production was slow and information moved slowly across geography. Over the 20th century, as fashion went from bespoke to ready-to-wear, the production cycle sped up. By the end of the century, a look would still last maybe a decade before it got old.
Today, developments in information technology and supply chain management have made it possible for a company to rip a look off the runway and put it into their stores before the original designer even has a chance to monetize their creation. So the criticism of companies like Shein, Zara, and H&M isn't just that they make crappy clothes (which they do), but that the minute you buy something, you realize the trend is already over. The people you tried to copy have already moved on, so you have to copy the next thing. Plus, as this copying process accelerates, designs can get more jumbled and ugly. Oh, double riders and fleece are trending? Let's make fleece double riders. It doesn't matter if it looks like ass — the thing won't stick around in the market long anyway.
In his book Status and Culture, @wdavidmarx talks about how people's pursuit of status moves culture forward. Much of the book draws from varoius fields, such as sociology, anthropology, media studies, and the like. But then the last part of the book deals with something curious: Why can various fashions define previous decades, but things have not changed much since the 1990s? Indeed, I would argue that the last big innovation in menswear happened in the 1980s/ 90s with Japanese designers like Yohji Yamamoto and Issey Mikaye. Menswear has been backwards looking every since — never forward.
Every era in the past had a distinct fashion. The 1960s had Mods and the Peacock Revolution, the 1970s had hippies and bohemian dress, the 1980s had power suits and the return of prep. Yet, if you watch a 1990s episode of Friends ... we kind of still dress the same. Yes, the silhouettes have changed a little, but the styles are mostly identical.
Marx suggests this is because status games mostly play out online, where cool things can become uncool in a matter of hours. As a result, nothing really takes hold, so we get fleeting fads instead of era-defining trends. Think of what happens with memes. Something starts funny, and then a corporation's social account uses it to seem relevant. Then the meme is decidedly uncool.
I once had a conversation with @quintendf about this. He suggested that we might be approaching a period where creative people seek to do things off the internet. Maybe that means returning to zines and cassette tapes that are passed around through a dub of a dub. Or maybe it's sensory experiences you can only have in person. During our conversation, I said that for this to happen, we need affordable housing in densely populated areas so creative people can interact with each other offline. And not feel pressured to maximize their income by selling themselves online.
Which brings us back to AI. That Yung Lean video originally went viral because people found it moving. I remember reposting it on Twitter, which led several people to question whether I was secretly paid behind the scenes to do so (I wasn't, as I don't do paid tweets). To me, their questioning only underscores how natural that viral moment was—the video moved lots of people, so they shared it on their socials.
Now that it has been endlessly copied in such trite, meaningless ways, the visual effect feels ever hollower. It has become a meme. As one person put it, "I now cringe when I see it."
If we look back on history, we can see distinct creative movements in art, music, furniture design, fashion, architecture, and more. Neoclassicism led to Romanticism; Art Deco eventually led to mid-century modernism; big-band swing music led to bebop. These movements all follow a familiar formula: a zeitgeist led to a backlash, which created yet another zeitgeist.
How can we have a creative zeitgeist when nothing is allowed to take hold? When every visual language is so easily replicated through AI tools and turned into memes? When visual language speeds from cool to cliché and then gets used by people with low cultural capital?
This is what I meant when I said that AI may contribute to our cultural stagnation. The issue isn't whether AI detracts from the original work. Indeed, it can elevate the original artist and bring them more attention. The question is whether this is good for people who care about creative integrity for its own sake — outside of notions of monetary rewards or fame. And whether this is good for culture.
うちの地元のラブホテルは同意書を書かないと入れない。
チェックインの時に
フロントで紙を渡されるのだ。
「ご利用同意書」
本日の利用はご自身の意思ですか。
はいいいえ。
2人がそれぞれ署名しないと
部屋の鍵がもらえない。
ネットでは有名な珍ホテルだ。
「日本一無粋なホテル」
「ムードが台無し」
「役所かよ」
レビューは散々だった。
でも変なことに
このホテルは20年間ずっと繁盛している。
しかもリピーターだらけ。
私は友達とこの謎を話していて
ある事実を知った。
友達の姉が昔このホテルで
働いていたのだ。
姉さんは笑って教えてくれた。
「あの同意書ね」
「紙は本体じゃないんだよ」
同意書には変なルールがある。
署名は2人同時じゃない。
1人ずつ別々に
フロント奥の小部屋に呼ばれて書くのだ。
相手からは見えない場所で。
その意味を聞いた私は
言葉を失った。
「あの1人の1分が
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