Leave your ego at the door. If you want to succeed at anything, leave your ego at the door. 1. Want to move abroad and start living life on your own terms? Start at remote income. And I mean REAL remote income. I don't give a fuck how much you make now from your wagecucking corporate slave job. You're a fucking loser, and you know it. EVEN if it's "remote." Can you make $100/mo on the internet without being on somebody's leash? If you can't even do that, then forget about moving abroad -- you're dead in the water before you begin. I know most people aren't ready to create real remote income, because they ask me stupid questions like "would you pick $200k 9-5 or $50k remote?" You're not ready if you're still asking that. 2. Want to build a sexy enviable body where you won't ever feel shy taking off your shirt in public? Then start with the lowest weights in the gym. Stop swinging the weights with momentum when you obviously can't do it with full range of motion and slowing down the eccentric. I don't care if you have to drop to 5-lb dumbbells to do proper lateral raises -- you do it and start from the very bottom. Otherwise you'll still look like shit after a year of going to the gym, I can assure you of that. 3. WOMEN, now this is the WORST place where men have a Manhattan-sized ego. Most men date for ego and validation. They do WHATEVER IT TAKES to snag the hottest woman they can on their arm, so that they can show her off to friends, family, co-workers, and even strangers, both online and in real life. Whatever it takes. Simp, worship her, move mountains for her, chop off your balls at City Hall, let her walk all over you, let her treat you like absolute shit. And even guys who want to have a sex life have too much of an ego to sleep with "mids." Newsflash, loser: Even the "mids" would reject you for a hookup, and you know it. Hell even the fat girls would reject you for a hookup, and you know it too. If you can't even close a mid/fat, you can't close a hottie. It's pretty fucking obvious. Either you leave your ego at the door and start with girls at your REAL standard/looksmatch (you own a mirror, don't you?). Or you just sell out and take the easy way out by using money to bribe some so-called "hot" woman who despises you to the core to pretend to like you so that she can retire for life on your dime. What are you going to do? Forever goon to porn like the fucking loser you are while grandstanding on the internet about how high your standards in women are? Or are you going to leave your ego at the door, start at the bottom, and then work your way up? Which way, anon? – at Barcelona, Spain

"What kind of stories should I post on social media to auramaxx?" Literally anything man. I like posting my singing videos (like this one), but you can post just about anything: 1. Working out 2. Boxing/MMA 3. Calisthenics 4. Pottery/Sculpting 5. Playing musical instruments 6. Painting/Sketching 7. Dancing 8. Surfing Just be a fun, normal guy who has a great energy about him. You don't need 100K followers on Instagram to have good Instagram game and have girls replying to your stories. (That's complete bullshit that fat dating coaches like Mike Fartstain want to convince you of to sell their programs.) Just be normal, keep posting auramaxxing material, and you'll linger in girls' "passive awareness" zone and live rent-free in their heads. Sooner or later, the ones who are interested in you will MAKE THEMSELVES KNOWN. And all you have to do then is to capitalize and close the deal. 😎

People still don't understand that the yardstick for success for men and women are COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. A man still dating after 15 years is highly successful. He hasn't submitted to monogamy or marriage or cohabitation as a sexual strategy. If he sucked at it, he would have stopped dating a long time ago and become incel OR become a husband. Anyone can do that.

Last month, I welcomed 13,375 new friends. Bienvenidos, amigos. 🤗 Stay tuned for more WORKING modern dating advice and not rehashed tired talking points. I'm not a dating "content creator." I'm an actual dater. The level of genuine insight you'll get from me is COMPLETELY DIFFERENT from a guy who's not out there actively dating in 2026 (or worse, STILL IS but struggling and yet still trying to teach others). 😎 – at Barcelona, Spain