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The difference between reacting and responding is the difference between a life that happens to you and one you actually lead. - russkyle.com/2026/10/17/diff… - Reaction is automatic. Something happens and your nervous system fires before your conscious mind has a chance to weigh in. The tone in someone’s voice. The unexpected news. The situation that goes sideways. Reaction does not pause to ask what is the wisest thing to do here. It just goes. And in going, it often makes things worse, closes doors, and leaves you with outcomes you did not actually choose. Response is different. Response lives in the gap between the stimulus and the action. It requires awareness, even a fraction of a second of it, enough to notice what is happening inside you before it becomes behavior on the outside. That gap is where your power lives. And most people have never been taught to use it. The person who reacts is being led by their history. By the patterns that were laid down in environments that no longer exist. By the emotional reflexes of a younger version of them that was doing its best at the time. Reaction is almost always the past showing up in the present. It is old code running on a new situation. The person who responds is being led by their intention. By who they have decided to be. By the values they have chosen and the future they are building. Response is the present self making a conscious choice rather than the past self running an automatic program. Learning to respond rather than react is one of the highest-leverage skills a human being can develop. Not because it makes life easier. But because it makes you the author of your experience rather than just its subject. And that changes everything about the quality of life you build. Coach Russ Kyle
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Where focus goes, energy flows. It sounds like a motivational phrase. It is actually a description of how your brain, your biology, and potentially reality itself operates. russkyle.com/2026/10/15/wher… Tony Robbins has said it thousands of times across decades of stages, seminars, and sessions with some of the highest performers on the planet. And while the phrase is simple enough to fit on a coffee mug, the mechanisms underneath it are anything but simple. They reach from basic neuroscience all the way down to the quantum level of how matter and energy behave. Understanding why this principle is true, not just accepting that it is, changes how you use it. What focus does to the brain Your brain processes an estimated 11 million bits of information per second. Your conscious mind handles roughly 50 of them. The rest is filtered out by a system in the brainstem called the reticular activating system, or RAS. This system acts as a gatekeeper. It decides, based on what you have told it matters, what gets through to your conscious awareness and what gets discarded. When you focus on something consistently, you are essentially programming the RAS to flag it. This is why the day after you decide to buy a red car, you suddenly see red cars everywhere. They were always there. Your filter changed. Your focus told your brain what to look for and your brain found it. This is not a small thing. It means that what you choose to focus on determines what you perceive, and what you perceive determines what you act on, and what you act on determines your results. The entire chain begins with where your attention goes. The neuroscience of directed attention When you focus on something with intensity, your brain releases neurotransmitters that increase alertness, sharpen perception, and mobilize energy toward that focus. Dopamine, which is involved in motivation and reward, increases when you direct sustained attention toward a goal. Norepinephrine heightens arousal and attention. The prefrontal cortex, which handles planning, decision making, and goal-directed behavior, becomes more active. In practical terms this means a focused brain is a more capable brain. Not more intelligent in the fixed sense but more resourceful. More able to find solutions, spot opportunities, and sustain effort in the direction of the focus. The unfocused brain, by contrast, is running on scattered energy. It is everywhere and therefore nowhere with any real force. This is what Tony Robbins understood intuitively and what the science has since confirmed. Focus is not just a productivity strategy. It is a neurological event that reshapes how your brain allocates its resources. The quantum dimension This is where it gets genuinely fascinating. At the quantum level, the act of observation itself influences what is observed. This is not metaphor. It is the foundational finding of quantum physics, demonstrated repeatedly in laboratory conditions. Particles exist in a state of potential until they are measured. The act of measurement, of directed attention, collapses that potential into a specific outcome. Now, translating quantum mechanics directly into human behavior requires care. The quantum world operates at scales far smaller than neurons. But the philosophical implication is profound and worth sitting with. At the most fundamental level of physical reality, attention is not passive. It participates in shaping what becomes real. When you hold a focused intention long enough and with enough emotional intensity, you are not merely thinking about a future. You are, according to some interpretations of quantum theory and the emerging field of quantum biology, participating in the process by which that future is brought into being. Whether you go fully into the quantum dimension or stay at the neurological level, the conclusion is the same. What you focus on, you move toward. And you move toward it not just psychologically but physiologically, behaviorally, and perhaps at levels of reality that science is only beginning to map. What this means practically As a Tony Robbins Master Coach trained personally by Tony himself, I have watched this principle play out across thousands of coaching sessions with clients at every level of life and performance. The people who transform are almost never the ones with the most resources or the clearest path. They are the ones who learn to direct their focus with precision and hold it there long enough for the brain, the body, and the environment to reorganize around it. The inverse is equally consistent. Clients who focus on what they do not want, on the problem, on the gap between where they are and where they want to be, find that the problem expands. Not because the universe is punishing them. Because their RAS is finding more of it. Because their emotional state is constricting their ability to see solutions. Because their energy is pouring into the very thing they are trying to leave behind. Focus is not neutral. It is the most powerful force you have direct access to at any moment. And it costs nothing except the willingness to direct it. How to use this deliberately The practice is straightforward even when it is not easy. Ask yourself several times throughout your day where your focus has been living. Not where you intend it to be but where it actually is. On what you want or on what you fear. On the solution or the problem. On who you are becoming or on everything that is evidence of who you have been. When you notice your focus has drifted toward what does not serve you, do not fight it. Redirect it. Ask a better question. What is working right now? What do I actually want? What would the version of me I am building focus on in this moment? Questions direct focus. And focus, as Tony Robbins has spent a career demonstrating, directs everything else. One of the things I remind my clients of consistently is this. You are always moving in the direction of your dominant thought. The only question is whether you are choosing that thought or inheriting it. Where is your focus right now? Coach Russ Kyle
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How to be bigger than your environment - russkyle.com/2026/10/16/how-… Most people are living their lives at the effect of the world around them without ever realizing it is a choice they are making. Every time something happens and your mood immediately shifts, every time someone says something and your whole day changes, every time circumstances determine how you feel, how you respond, and what story you tell yourself about your life, you are living at the effect. Life is happening to you. And over time that orientation quietly becomes a worldview. Things happen. I react. I manage what comes at me. This is just how life is. But there is another way to move through the world. And it starts with a single shift in orientation. From effect to cause. From reaction to intention. From being shaped by your environment to being bigger than it. What it means to be bigger than your environment Being bigger than your environment does not mean you are unaffected by what happens around you. You are human. You will feel things. Things will land. The difference is in what happens next. A person living at the effect of their environment is unconscious of the gap between what happens and how they respond. The stimulus arrives and the reaction follows automatically. No pause. No choice. No awareness that they even had one. A person who is bigger than their environment is conscious of that gap. They notice how they are feeling. They notice the story they are beginning to tell themselves. They notice how they are showing up in this moment. And in that noticing, they find something powerful. A choice. The ability to respond rather than react. To lead rather than be led. This is what it means to be at cause rather than at effect. You are not a passenger in your own life. You are the driver. And the environment, however challenging or unpredictable, does not get to determine your direction. The question that changes everything One of the most powerful tools for developing this kind of conscious leadership over yourself is a simple question. Not what am I getting from this situation. But what am I bringing to it. What am I bringing to this conversation? What am I bringing to this relationship? What am I bringing to this challenge, this room, this moment? That question shifts everything. Because it moves your attention from outside to inside. From what the world is doing to you to what you are contributing to the world. From victim to author. From passenger to driver. Most people spend the majority of their energy focused on what they are getting. What is this giving me. What is this costing me. What is this person doing or not doing. What is this situation producing or failing to produce. And there is nothing wrong with being aware of outcomes. But when that is the only lens, you are always waiting. Always reacting. Always at the mercy of what the environment delivers. When you ask what am I bringing, you step into a completely different relationship with your life. You become the cause of your experience rather than the effect of it. Other questions worth carrying Beyond what am I bringing, there are other questions that develop this muscle of conscious living. Questions like: How am I showing up right now? Not how am I feeling, but how am I actually showing up for the people and the situations in front of me. What story am I telling myself about this? Because the story is never just the facts. It is the facts plus the meaning you are assigning them. And the meaning is always a choice, even when it does not feel like one. Is my response to this situation the one I am choosing, or the one that was chosen for me by old conditioning? That question alone can interrupt decades of automatic behavior. What does the highest version of me do here? Not the reactive version. Not the tired version. The version that is fully conscious and fully intentional. What does that person do next? The environment will always be what it is Here is the truth that sets you free. You cannot control most of what happens around you. You cannot control what people say, what circumstances arise, what surprises appear, what gets taken away or what does not show up on time. The environment is the environment. It will always have something to say about your day. What you can control is the one thing that determines everything else. Who you are in the middle of it. How conscious you are. How intentional your responses are. What you choose to bring, to every room, every relationship, every moment that tests you. Being bigger than your environment is not a personality trait. It is a practice. It is asking the right questions before you react. It is catching the story before it runs you. It is choosing, in the space between stimulus and response, who you are going to be. That choice is always available. Even on the hardest days. Especially on the hardest days. Coach Russ Kyle
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Two minutes in this pose will change your brain chemistry. Science proves it. russkyle.com/2026/10/15/two-… 2010, Harvard Business School researcher Amy Cuddy discovered that holding a power pose for just two minutes produced measurable changes in human biochemistry. Not after weeks of practice. Not after months of conditioning. Two minutes. Participants who held an expansive, open posture, arms wide, chest open, chin up, the kind of stance you associate with Superman or Wonder Woman, showed the following hormonal shifts compared to those who held closed, contracted postures: Testosterone increased by 20 percent. The hormone directly linked to confidence, assertiveness, and dominance. Cortisol decreased by 25 percent. The primary stress hormone responsible for anxiety, threat response, and mental interference. Risk tolerance increased measurably. Participants were significantly more willing to take action. Two minutes. No medication. No elaborate intervention. Just a deliberate shift in how you position your body. The deeper principle is this. The mind and body are one integrated system. We know emotions produce physical states. What Cuddy’s research confirmed is that physical states produce emotional and hormonal ones too. You do not have to feel confident to stand like someone who is. Your chemistry will begin to follow. Before your next high stakes moment, find two minutes alone. Stand tall. Feet wide. Hands on your hips or arms raised. Chest open. Hold it. Breathe. Let your body send the signal your mind needs to receive. Your body has been talking to your brain your whole life. It is time to start directing the conversation. Coach Russ Kyle
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Where focus goes, energy flows. It sounds like a motivational phrase. It is actually a description of how your brain, your biology, and potentially reality itself operates. russkyle.com/2026/10/15/wher… Tony Robbins has said it thousands of times across decades of stages, seminars, and sessions with some of the highest performers on the planet. And while the phrase is simple enough to fit on a coffee mug, the mechanisms underneath it are anything but simple. They reach from basic neuroscience all the way down to the quantum level of how matter and energy behave. Understanding why this principle is true, not just accepting that it is, changes how you use it. What focus does to the brain Your brain processes an estimated 11 million bits of information per second. Your conscious mind handles roughly 50 of them. The rest is filtered out by a system in the brainstem called the reticular activating system, or RAS. This system acts as a gatekeeper. It decides, based on what you have told it matters, what gets through to your conscious awareness and what gets discarded. When you focus on something consistently, you are essentially programming the RAS to flag it. This is why the day after you decide to buy a red car, you suddenly see red cars everywhere. They were always there. Your filter changed. Your focus told your brain what to look for and your brain found it. This is not a small thing. It means that what you choose to focus on determines what you perceive, and what you perceive determines what you act on, and what you act on determines your results. The entire chain begins with where your attention goes. The neuroscience of directed attention When you focus on something with intensity, your brain releases neurotransmitters that increase alertness, sharpen perception, and mobilize energy toward that focus. Dopamine, which is involved in motivation and reward, increases when you direct sustained attention toward a goal. Norepinephrine heightens arousal and attention. The prefrontal cortex, which handles planning, decision making, and goal-directed behavior, becomes more active. In practical terms this means a focused brain is a more capable brain. Not more intelligent in the fixed sense but more resourceful. More able to find solutions, spot opportunities, and sustain effort in the direction of the focus. The unfocused brain, by contrast, is running on scattered energy. It is everywhere and therefore nowhere with any real force. This is what Tony Robbins understood intuitively and what the science has since confirmed. Focus is not just a productivity strategy. It is a neurological event that reshapes how your brain allocates its resources. The quantum dimension This is where it gets genuinely fascinating. At the quantum level, the act of observation itself influences what is observed. This is not metaphor. It is the foundational finding of quantum physics, demonstrated repeatedly in laboratory conditions. Particles exist in a state of potential until they are measured. The act of measurement, of directed attention, collapses that potential into a specific outcome. Now, translating quantum mechanics directly into human behavior requires care. The quantum world operates at scales far smaller than neurons. But the philosophical implication is profound and worth sitting with. At the most fundamental level of physical reality, attention is not passive. It participates in shaping what becomes real. When you hold a focused intention long enough and with enough emotional intensity, you are not merely thinking about a future. You are, according to some interpretations of quantum theory and the emerging field of quantum biology, participating in the process by which that future is brought into being. Whether you go fully into the quantum dimension or stay at the neurological level, the conclusion is the same. What you focus on, you move toward. And you move toward it not just psychologically but physiologically, behaviorally, and perhaps at levels of reality that science is only beginning to map. What this means practically As a Tony Robbins Master Coach trained personally by Tony himself, I have watched this principle play out across thousands of coaching sessions with clients at every level of life and performance. The people who transform are almost never the ones with the most resources or the clearest path. They are the ones who learn to direct their focus with precision and hold it there long enough for the brain, the body, and the environment to reorganize around it. The inverse is equally consistent. Clients who focus on what they do not want, on the problem, on the gap between where they are and where they want to be, find that the problem expands. Not because the universe is punishing them. Because their RAS is finding more of it. Because their emotional state is constricting their ability to see solutions. Because their energy is pouring into the very thing they are trying to leave behind. Focus is not neutral. It is the most powerful force you have direct access to at any moment. And it costs nothing except the willingness to direct it. How to use this deliberately The practice is straightforward even when it is not easy. Ask yourself several times throughout your day where your focus has been living. Not where you intend it to be but where it actually is. On what you want or on what you fear. On the solution or the problem. On who you are becoming or on everything that is evidence of who you have been. When you notice your focus has drifted toward what does not serve you, do not fight it. Redirect it. Ask a better question. What is working right now? What do I actually want? What would the version of me I am building focus on in this moment? Questions direct focus. And focus, as Tony Robbins has spent a career demonstrating, directs everything else. One of the things I remind my clients of consistently is this. You are always moving in the direction of your dominant thought. The only question is whether you are choosing that thought or inheriting it. Where is your focus right now? Coach Russ Kyle
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Your thoughts will create scenarios in your mind that reflect your insecurities, fear, and worries. So it's important to always fact-check your own thoughts before accepting them, because in highly emotional situations, your thoughts will tell you stories that aren't true. Fact-check yourself.
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Russ Kyle The opposite of depression is expression. When we hold everything inside, emotions have nowhere to go. The pain. The anger. The sadness. The fear. The disappointment. The things we never said. The parts of ourselves we learned to hide. Expression gives those things somewhere to move. Write. Talk. Create. Paint. Sing. Make music. Dance. Exercise. Pray. Cry. Laugh. Journal. Have the conversation. Tell someone what you’re feeling. Turn your pain into art. Turn your experience into wisdom. Turn your struggle into something that helps another person. You were never meant to keep everything locked inside. Expression is movement. Expression is release. Expression is connection. Expression is giving what’s happening inside of you somewhere to go. Sometimes healing begins when you stop suppressing what you feel and start expressing what’s real. So if you’ve been carrying too much inside, find a healthy way to let it out. Your voice matters. Your story matters. What you feel matters. The opposite of depression is expression. Express yourself. #MentalHealth #SelfExpression #HealingJourney #PersonalGrowth #Mindset
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The highest version of you is not a destination. It is a daily decision. russkyle.com/2026/10/05/high… People talk about becoming their best self as if it is something that happens once. A moment of arrival. A point at which you have finally done enough work, enough growth, enough becoming, and you get to stay there. That is not how it works. And honestly, if it were, it would be far less interesting than what it actually is. The highest version of you is not waiting at the end of the journey. It is available right now, today, in this moment, through the quality of the decision you make next. How you respond to the hard thing. Whether you choose the easy comfort or the meaningful challenge. Whether you show up as the person you are becoming or default back to the person you have been. This is actually good news. Because it means the path to your highest self is not some distant, complicated, years-long project that only starts when conditions are right. It starts with the next choice. And the one after that. And the one after that. Growth is not a destination you reach and then maintain. It is a direction you keep choosing. Some days you choose it more fully than others. That is part of it. What matters is that you keep orienting toward it. Keep making the decision, imperfectly, consistently, over time. The highest version of you is one decision away. It always has been. Russ Kyle Share this:
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There is a level of human existence that most people never reach, not because they are not capable, but because nobody ever told them it was available to them. - russkyle.com/2026/09/29/masl… - One of the most important ideas in the history of psychology is the concept of self-actualization. The idea that human beings have a highest level of development available to them. A state in which a person is fully alive, fully themselves, fully engaged with the life they are living. Not just surviving. Not just achieving. Actually becoming. The research on people who reach this level is fascinating. They share a set of qualities that have nothing to do with wealth or status or the absence of struggle. Self-actualized people are deeply comfortable with who they are. They do not need constant external validation because their sense of self is not built on it. They are driven by purpose rather than by fear. They can sit with uncertainty without it destroying them. They experience what researchers called peak moments, deep flashes of meaning and aliveness that most people only brush up against occasionally but that self-actualized people access regularly. They are also, notably, not perfect. They have struggles. They have flaws. They fail. But they have a relationship with their own humanity that allows them to hold all of it without collapsing. They are not trying to be someone else. They are not performing a version of themselves for an audience. They are simply, deeply, authentically themselves. And that authenticity is what makes them magnetic, effective, and genuinely at peace. What stops most people from reaching this level is not a lack of intelligence or talent or opportunity. It is that they spend the majority of their energy meeting needs that should have been met earlier and were not. The need for safety. For belonging. For significance. When those needs are running the show unconsciously, there is no bandwidth left for becoming. You are too busy managing the deficit to build toward the potential. The work then is not just to achieve more or to push harder. It is to address what is underneath. To build genuine security from the inside. To find real belonging rather than performing for it. To develop a sense of significance that is not dependent on what others think of you. When those foundations are solid, something opens up. The energy that was going into survival starts going into growth. And growth at that level is something entirely different from anything most people have experienced. You were not built to spend your whole life at the bottom of your own potential. The highest version of you is not a fantasy. It is a real destination. And it is more available to you than you have probably been told. The question is not whether you are capable of becoming that person. You are. The question is whether you are willing to do the work that clears the path to get there. Russ Kyle
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Conditioning is not something that happens to you once. It is something happening every day through what you repeat, consume, and allow. - russkyle.com/2026/09/28/cond… - People tend to think of conditioning as something from the past. The childhood. The upbringing. The environment they grew up in. And while all of that matters, it is only part of the picture. Because conditioning is not a one-time event. It is an ongoing process. And it is happening right now, today, whether you are directing it or not. Every piece of content you consume is conditioning you toward something. Every conversation you have regularly is reinforcing a way of seeing the world. Every habit you repeat is deepening a groove in your nervous system. Every thought you entertain without questioning it is becoming more automatic. The question is not whether you are being conditioned. You are. The question is whether the conditioning is taking you where you want to go. Most people are running on autopilot. They have never stopped to ask what their daily inputs are actually building inside them. They consume whatever is in front of them, spend time with whoever is available, repeat whatever patterns feel familiar, and then wonder why their inner world feels stuck even when they are trying to grow. Intentional conditioning looks different. It means curating what you consume with the same care you would give to your physical diet. It means being selective about the voices you let repeat in your life. It means choosing to rehearse thoughts and beliefs that align with who you are becoming rather than just defaulting to whatever the mind does on its own. You are not a passive recipient of your conditioning. You are an active participant in it. The only variable is whether you are participating consciously or by default. One of those builds the life you want. The other builds the life you inherited. Russ Kyle
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Russ Kyle Mark my words. One day, you’re going to look back at this point in your life and realize: This was a turning point. Not because everything magically worked out. Not because the road suddenly became easy. Not because every problem disappeared. But because you didn’t give up. You kept going when you were tired. You kept believing when you couldn’t see the evidence yet. You kept showing up when it would have been easier to walk away. You kept taking the next step. And then another. And another. That’s persistence. And persistence has a way of turning impossible seasons into powerful chapters of your story. You may not be able to see where all of this is leading right now. That’s okay. Just don’t quit in the middle of the chapter. Because one day, you may look back and realize that the moment you almost gave up was the moment everything began to change. Keep going. Keep believing. Keep showing up. One day, the fact that you didn’t give up is going to mean everything. #Motivation #KeepGoing #NeverGiveUp #Mindset #PersonalGrowth
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Russ Kyle One of my mentors taught me something years ago that has stayed with me ever since: How other people treat you is their karma. How you respond is yours. You can’t control someone else’s words, behavior, choices, judgment, anger, or disrespect. But you can control what you do with it. You can react from anger, or respond from strength. You can carry resentment, or protect your peace. You can set a boundary without becoming bitter. You can walk away without losing yourself. You can forgive without pretending what happened was okay. That’s where your power is. Their behavior belongs to them. Your response belongs to you. Choose wisely. Wayne Dyer #WayneDyer #Karma #Spirituality #InnerPeace #PersonalGrowth
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russkyle.com/2026/09/22/be-r… - Be ridiculously optimistic about your future. Delusional, even. - Be ridiculously optimistic about your future. Not cautiously hopeful. Not carefully realistic. Ridiculously, unapologetically optimistic. Everything that is in front of you, all the wonderful things that are coming your way, none of it is guaranteed to the person who plays it safe and dreams small. It belongs to the person who decided, somewhere along the way, that this one life was worth going all in on.You have got one life to become everything you have ever dreamed about. One shot. Not a rehearsal. Not a warm up. This is it. And the tragedy for so many people is that somewhere along the way they learned to settle. The dream got smaller. The ambition got quieter. The fire that used to be obvious started to dim under the weight of other people’s opinions and the slow accumulation of playing it safe.Do not be like them.Be delusional in your dreams. Go after things that seem impossible. Go after them especially when the people around you think you have lost your mind. The ones who tell you that you cannot have what you want have already made their peace with not having what they want. That is their story. It does not have to be yours.Do not let them steal your dream. Not the skeptics, not the practical voices, not even the version of yourself that has been conditioned to believe that wanting too much is dangerous. Under no circumstances do you hand your dream over to someone who was never willing to go after their own.And if you are not ready to go after it today, do not give it up. Defer it. Keep it alive. A deferred dream is still a dream. A surrendered one is just a regret.Be scared. Go anyway. Being scared means you are actually living. It means the thing you are reaching for matters enough to terrify you, and that is exactly the kind of thing worth reaching for. The people who never feel fear are not the brave ones. They are the ones who stopped wanting anything big enough to be afraid of.Dream bigger. Reach for the moon and the stars. The higher you aim the farther you will go even when you fall short of the highest point. Aim small and you guarantee a small result. Aim enormous and even your misses land somewhere worth being.Try everything on offer. Be alive inside and outside. Be excited about your own future in a way that people around you can actually feel. That energy is not arrogance. It is aliveness. And aliveness is contagious.Do not look back in anger at what you could have done. Do not arrive at old and gray with a long list of things you almost went for. The regret of inaction is always heavier than the regret of trying and falling short. Always.This is your one fantastic life. Go for it.Russ Kyle russ-kyle #russkyle RUSS KYLE russkyle.com russ_kyle
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