Attention Young Women: I am surrounded by 20 year old guys in my life that are smart, capable, hard working and handsome. Nobody is dating them. Not sure what the deal is, but I don’t get it. Step 1: Stop having an OnlyFans - no man wants to date a whore Step 2: Stay away from the tattoos and hair colours & other red flags Step 3: Hit a gym (when dating BMI is critical) Step 4: Go clean your morals Step 5: Sign up for a church or conservative organisation Step 6: Go to the church or conservative organisation Step 7: Be cute, and approachable - mention things you like doing - if he isn't a player, he will need cues that he should invite you something - so give those signals that an approach would be accepted (yes you can meet guys IRL and not just on the apps - they will just treat you as a consumer item anyway) Step 8: Don’t accept an offer to turn up at his place, that's just advertising you're a pump and dump, agree to something wholesome, maybe in mixed company. Get a sense for if you are worth making actual effort for, if not you are trying to date outside your sexual market value. Step 9: IMPORTANT - come up with a REALISTIC view of your own sexual market value - Yes, 9/10 chad will probably bang you once or twice, but he won’t commit, why the hell would he? - you cant then assume you are a 9/10 - but the 7/10 won’t want you then. Step 10: I highly recommend you bring a low body count to the date. And you really don’t need to put out immediately - and yes some guys will ghost you immediately if you don’t. But that's because they have other options and expect it, but that also tells you your chances of commitment were super low to non-existent with that guy anyway. Step 11: Be feminine on the date. He isn’t there to hear your progressive political bullshit you get drilled into you by education and media. Ask her about what he’s doing with his life and what matters to him. For every statement he makes about the state of the world ask 3 questions as to why he thinks that before dismissing it as reactionary. Offer to pay for half the meal, and if he accepts you probably failed to escape your progressive mindset and he is planning on doing a runner the moment he can. Provided you follow most of this guideline you are highly likely to get yourself an opportunity for a man that will actually commit and provide for you and your children for life. Keep going until you find someone that you can’t imagine not being around all the time. That’s when you have found a good one for you. My life is complete with my wife and children. I wish you the same fortune in life. Happy Hunting.