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Kind, resilient Here to fight stigma and normalise downturns Sharing my journey

Joined January 2021
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A platform for all undergoing a time of uncertainty, fear, anger, regret leading to anxiety, stress, you name it; yet to understand that this is a better time in life for you than many other times because you will overcome this, and be grateful that you have experienced this
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Above everything you will know what kindness is and what being humble means and how close or distant people are from these
You will come back. Only you will know who you are, who you were. Others will have no idea of how much you have grown out of the pain and what you are capable of doing
With every story published, there is a hidden story of the victim, his/ her/ their pain, truth, faith, resilience, forgiveness
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and there is also another true story of the perpetrator, transparent but on purpose ignored
Here you will be alone withstanding it quietly taking every blow; from a mob of well-to-dos enjoying their late evening drinks while you will struggle to get to sleep, sleeping till late in the morning while you will be awakened at 4am
There will be a lot of truth left behind, false things said, and exaggerated to justify referring you fearing otherwise it will be a case against their integrity
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Thinking about how it has now manifested as outcomes from meetings occurring behind you, against you, will drive shivers now and then
Day 60-240 long period of silence; for you it will be days of frantically checking your mails, every day till 5pm to give you 16 hours of quiet, and on Fridays 64 hours. there would not be a single minute you would be able to let it go 1/2
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You will have to get moments off though, for others You will reflect in your thoughts - pen them down There will be time - get on to a Course You will feel alone - share with 10 ‘good‘ friends, do not betray them by hiding away 2/2
the choice is between being perceived as great because you have managed to stay humble and being perceived as great because people fear you for having the power to cause nuisances. The first brings positivity in an organisation while the second destructive negativity
How many times in a day have you kept your smile to hide what's going on in your life? Congratulate yourself for doing so - This is how you can make life go on, and let the oblivious stuff shy away from you
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Humbleness and greatness go hand in hand. Greatness follows humility most of the time. It is however important that humility remains or at least develops after achieving greatness
Faith and time will be the best companions, the best thing is that no body can take these away from you unless you allow them to
There will always be far worse tragedies people are going through and overcoming everyday
During this time, you may get the most honest and best advice from a sincere friend rather than the most qualified psychologist There is really no point discussing your situation in detail with any body. What you need is to keep it short and sweet
Do 3 things everyday Create: anything new in life, may be just learn a little new something Sustain: maintain, may be your health, or call a friend or family member to value them Destroy: any thing bad, may be just clear your desk, or simply donate an unwanted thing
You need to get out if your facial muscles do not feel tired by the evening, seclusion will be your worst enemy but the easiest to overcome
1/2 You will pray for people who have yet to learn to be kind. Those mere mortals who will hopefully learn one day when they go through it Those who will go through something similar and be then able to relate
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2/2 There will seem to be people who however will still not learn to be kind Among saints who did not have to endure pain to become kind
All of us will have lapses At some point Not once, but a few times You do not have feel That you have lost You will come back On the correct road The only one expectation Each time from you