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Joined November 2023
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🚒// Please give advice I’m struggling
"It feels like I don't fit into any RP fandom. "I keep posting calls for RP, but no one responds." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"You’re a skilled writer. That fandom you're so desperate to get into should be so lucky as to have you! "Problem is you’re being held back by your so-called best friend. That writer is toxic and incredibly jealous. "Friends want friends to thrive; … #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"It feels like I don't fit into any RP fandom. "I keep posting calls for RP, but no one responds." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"Our characters are shipped; we are not. "I'm not giving up my RL work, school, friends, or other thing just because you want to demand my constant attention. "RP with you is NOT my whole life." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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QUESTION: "Sometimes, I lose interest in RPing because I feel totally ignored. "What should I do?" #RPQuestions #RPCommunity
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"I've been having such a hard time getting other RPers to interact with me. "Whenever I reply to a starter or post one of my own, it just gets dropped or completely ignored. "Timing is another issue for me. Between real life schedules and …" #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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//instant block if they make you uncomfortable.
"Female RPers, I have a request. "Would you please let me make just one gay male OC without one of you immediately asking me to make him straight for you? "Thanks." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"People keep calling my writer problematic when it's not true. "One person we befriended spread lies over a ship. Now I'm losing followers, getting no interactions, and blocked by strangers. "I'm 23, don't sexualize minors or do lewd, and I help …" #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"Why do people ask to RP on my RL account? "No. This is my RP account. I RP here. Leave my RL account out of it." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"Is there anything worse than needing a break from RP here but you can't take one because your shipping partner keeps demanding your attention?" #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"Could other please stop asking why I'm not writing with them every moment? "I have a real life. I work. I study. I have appointments or other commitments. "No one is free to write 24/7." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"Feels like I work so much in real life that I'm hardly here to RP! "But when I am here, everyone avoids me. "How can I get back what's been lost?" #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"My followers are leaving. Why? Because I changed my faceclaim and I won’t write lewd. "This my account! I'll do what I want!" #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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//I was stuck in such a situation for several years. My advice, run at the first sign of this. I was told who I could write with, who I could tag. The person checked who liked my posts etc. I was called a whore and all sorts. Also, don't ever water down your character for >
"Them: 'You've got me now. You don't need other friends' "Me: *BLOCKS* "You're one person. I'm not abandoning my friends for you."
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Idk why everyone freaks out when asked this question. I'm always genuinely curious, no malicious intend. You can choose not to answer and I'd be ok with it.
QUESTION: "I got a DM saying 'You say you know me from previous RP, but I don't know you or what you want from me.' "I was just asking to RP again, to start interacting with new characters. "How do others deal with this kind of situation?" #RPQuestions #RPCommunity
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QUESTION: "I got a DM saying 'You say you know me from previous RP, but I don't know you or what you want from me.' "I was just asking to RP again, to start interacting with new characters. "How do others deal with this kind of situation?" #RPQuestions #RPCommunity
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🚒// It does feel lonely on here
"Lately, this platform has felt quite lonely to me. "Why? The nearly constant toxicity and drama here has led most of my friends to take extended hiatuses." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"I decided to RP here as an escape from RL stress. "But in recent years, I'm noticing that my RL seems a lot better than my time here in the RP community." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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"Lately, this platform has felt quite lonely to me. "Why? The nearly constant toxicity and drama here has led most of my friends to take extended hiatuses." #RPGripes #RPCommunity
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QUESTION: "I can't be here all the time. Like everyone else, I have a real life and RL challenges I must manage. Sending me multiple DMs for several days …" "How do others deal with writing partners who don't respect boundaries or hiatus notices?" #RPQuestions #RPCommunity
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