Silicon Valley keeps building me a husband when what I really want is a wife lol I don't want an agent that only does one-off, random tasks that are nice but not life-changing: booking flights, making dinner reservations, or buying tickets I want an AI wife who knows what’s on the family calendar, remembers there’s a birthday party Saturday and we haven’t bought a gift then sends me options, realizes we’re almost out of diapers and buys them, knows which bills are coming up, remembers someone needs a dentist appointment and books it, figures out what the hell we’re eating all week and what we need from the grocery store, and generally keeps track of the 47 things that need to happen before anyone else even realizes they need to happen. So, who's building me an AI wife that carries the mental load instead of an AI husband that waits for me to give it a chore??

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You may be tempted to optimize for something or someone , but really when you think about what you want to do and who you want to surround yourself with, think about what/who you have deep true curiosity about, or what you feel is worthwhile even if it doesn’t work out or if no one else cared about it, or what feels like the truest manifestation of yourself.

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Agree re: catch 22 - on this, are we confident our adversaries aren’t worried about similar issues? I’m assuming no govt wants a frontier model w strong misalignment risk that could destabilize said govt (and this would esp be be true in states that have strong centralized control). And if they are in fact worried (which I'd posit they are), is there possibility to have a narrow collab between US and its adversaries on audit development? Broadly, feels like the issue is that we’re still at a country vs country dynamic. Q is what is the fastest/lowest risk trigger to unlock a humans vs misaligned model dynamic.