Nigerian ๐ณ๐ฌ ๐ Soft heart. Protected. Cherished. Handled with care.
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Shibari comes in very handy. Take a class.
โจ The first two classes in this beginner series are free! Watch the full series: shibaristudy.com/programs/baโฆ
Learn the knots youโll use in almost every tie, from your very first session to years down the line!
In this class, Anna Bones teaches the single-column tie (SCT), the Yuki knot and the double-column tie (DCT). She explains exactly why these are some of the most practical knots for play, and how they set you up for her self-tying classes too. No partner or previous tying experience needed, and by the end youโll be ready to start having some fun with basic bedroom ties.
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People Who Attempt To End It All Are Patients, Not Criminalsโ Dr Chinonso Urges Senate President To Reconsider Jail Terms For Failed Attempts
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A sub isn't a "lower tier being". That you can use, abuse and take advantage of.
A sub isn't a possession without feelings
A sub isn't an invitation to exploit them
A sub isn't an open permission to neglect them
A sub isn't a opportunity to enrich yourself
Do better as a Dom
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I want to be so in love that I stop counting the ways it could hurt, and simply surrender to the feeling. So in love that their name feels like a prayer on my lips, their presence feels like home, and the world could fall silent around me, yet Iโd still hear my heart choosing them.
A few things about Subspace...
1. It requires absolute trust in your Dom.
2. It is more than a physical reaction, it is a mental release.
3. It leaves you completely vulnerable.
4. Proper aftercare and emotional shelter are non-negotiable.
5. It cannot be demanded or forced.
I literally said this on space last night
Apparently thereโs actual research suggesting BDSM can produce altered states similar to flow state. In one study, bottoming was associated with a state consistent with temporarily reduced executive processing, which honestly makes โsubspaceโ make a lot more sense. Sometimes submission really can feel like finally getting out of your own head.
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Being disrespectful doesn't make you a Dom.
Being a Dom doesn't mean everyone is lower than you.
Being an asshole doesn't make you a Dom.
My number one advice for a sub to keep safe is avoid anyone that uses the role of Dom to be a piece of trash.
Basic decency is step zero.
I don't need everyone to understand why I submit.
I just need the person I'm submitting to, to understand what I've entrusted them with.
Remember this.
