So….about the Cornell Immoral Seven:  Enough obsessing over what SHE did. Let’s talk about what those BOYS did. When that Snapchat went out, decent young men should have been disgusted. They should have gone to that room, confronted the guys involved and said, “What the heck are you doing?” Then they should have called for help. THAT is leadership. Instead, too often our culture shrugs and falls back on the tired excuse: “Boys will be boys.” No. Boys need to be taught to become MEN. Men with self-control. Men with courage. Men who protect instead of exploit. Men who speak up when other men are doing something immoral. Men who someday lead their families with character and integrity. Mothers and fathers both need to raise the standard. Stop excusing reckless behavior. Stop normalizing it. Stop teaching boys that masculinity means getting away with whatever you can. Strong societies require strong, moral men. It’s time we start raising them. #cornell