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“A real Domme would NEVER buy her sub something for his birthday.” That might be one of the nastiest takes I’ve seen come out of this community. Some of y’all are so committed to performing cruelty that you genuinely think showing appreciation makes you weak. If a sub has spent thousands on you, shown up consistently, spoiled you, respected you, and been loyal to you, and your first thought is “I better not do anything nice for him or I won’t look dominant anymore” you were never powerful to begin with. Your dominance is THAT fragile? A $20 birthday gift can knock you off your throne? Please. Being a Domme doesn’t require you to become an emotionally bankrupt asshole. I can spoil someone who spoils me and STILL be the one in control. I can appreciate loyalty without surrendering authority. I can give because I WANT to, not because I was told to. That’s the difference. Some of y’all need to hear this badly: Treating every sub like disposable trash doesn’t make you elite. Being incapable of reciprocity doesn’t make you dominant and withholding basic appreciation from someone good to you just to protect your little internet persona is weird. If kindness threatens your power, you never had power. You had a costume 💯📣🤏🏽