Dear woman, This is another day to remind you that cohabitation with a man does not benefit you in any way It is you that they will say has “high mileage” It is you that they will say has slacked It is you that will have to have abortions because “protection failed” If anything happens to your womb in the process now they will even “fibroid” shame you, age shame you and pick a 23 year old. It is you who will be abandoned with babies when you have them They will say you’re not a high value woman They will say you don’t have self respect If you’re unfortunate the day that you come to post your wedding pictures, men you’ve slept with in Uni will come and laugh at the man that loves and wants to marry you They will say they have receipts of how you’ve been passed around They will slut shame you wetin no good It is you that will lose Don’t lie to yourself that you will go there an nothing will happen He will gaslight you and tell you you don’t love him if not you will climb bed Any man that wants the goods should go and see your mummy and daddy first WISE UP!!