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Joined October 2009
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JayminiSurvivor retweeted
PA =Counterclaim 4 domestic abuse speaking out..... Alienation=Isolation. Isolation=coervive control.. WHO "they" may ask is the one isolating the child in that case? Who is counter claiming the alleged domestic abuse??? Who is switching justifiable into unjistifiable rejection
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
It is indeed the scandal of our time, when the choices facing victims & survivors of DA is to flee to a place of isolation and poverty, risk losing care of children to abusers or keep quiet to appease the abusers and their enablers and put the children at risk
For months we’ve been investigating serious alleged failures in our #FamilyCourt
A convicted child rapist was granted residency of a child.
5 mums died, 3 took their own lives.
75 children forced into contact with dads reported for abuse.
#bbcnews bbc.co.uk/news/uk-66531409
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
We absolutely understand why mums consider fleeing - to Hague or non-Hague countries - to keep themselves & their children safe.
There's no adequate protection, no safe solution for mums in these circumstances. Not in the UK. Not anywhere.
1. To stay means further abuse 1/5
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
It’s the biggest issue in my inbox as well. It’s heartbreaking and beyond frustrating that @jessphillips and I, and many others, have been calling on Govt for years to urgently reform family courts. But change is too slow and victims of serious crimes are being placed at risk.
“The push on parental alienation is dangerous and it’s harming children.”
We showed our investigation to @jessphillips Labour Shadow Minister on Domestic Violence and campaigner for Family Court reform. She says she’s heard from thousands of desperate mothers.
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
We frequently heard about the destructive impact of domestic abuse in preparing the new (imminent) national #suicideprevention strategy.
Important work from my @OfficialUoM colleagues at @SheraFamily.
bbc.co.uk/news/uk-66531409
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
Are you a mother who is or has been involved in Hague Convention abduction proceedings? There’s still time to complete this survey, a unique opportunity to have your say
A huge reminder to email [email protected] for the links to access our survey.
@BarnettAdrienne @FiLiA_charity @MayDayFamCourt @court_crisis @LovingAbductor @HagueMothers @SheraFamily @ParamilyUK @herhaguestory @UNSRVAW @coercivecontrol
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
“This isn't a bad judge. This isn't a rogue court in one part of the country. This is a tactic of abusers that is being used across every part of our country." bbc.co.uk/news/uk-66531409
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
Thank you @BBC, thank you @EdThomasNews
thank you to the brave mothers and all who have spoken out for this documentary.
bbc.co.uk/programmes/p0g7gsl…
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
Thank you @BBC and @EdThomasNews and the brave survivors for shining a light on the huge systemic problems in family court that those of us researching and campaigning for years have encountered. What you are doing in bringing this to public attention is vitally important 🙏
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JayminiSurvivor retweeted
We called for mandatory training in the DA Act for family court judiciary on abuse but Govt blocked it. Lack of expertise is leading to victims’ disclosures of serious abuse being dismissed and weaponised against them and reframed as ‘frustrating contact’. bbc.co.uk/news/uk-66534732
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
When, after Re H-N, the President said that DA training was mandatory for all family court judges, I sent an FOI asking how many had done it. They refused to answer.
We called for mandatory training in the DA Act for family court judiciary on abuse but Govt blocked it. Lack of expertise is leading to victims’ disclosures of serious abuse being dismissed and weaponised against them and reframed as ‘frustrating contact’. bbc.co.uk/news/uk-66534732
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
If I had known what family court was like I wouldn't have stepped foot through the door
Unfortunately for many when they reach out for help from social services, police etc and the perpetrator is emboldened in their behaviour refuses to return your child you're left wirh no choice.
If I knew what I would be facing I would have taken my son and left quickly to somewhere safe.
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JayminiSurvivor retweeted
My latest blog has arrived! Domestically Abusive Men Describe WHY They Criticize Women's Mothering:
Abusers explain their reasons for exploiting what it means to be a good mother, in their own words.
ko-fi.com/post/Domestically-…
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
@AlexChalkChelt @HouseofCommons @CommonsJustice @TaiwoOwatemi @jessphillips Ioan should be at home with his SAFE mother 💔. Instead he is in the court ordered care of a known drug addict and his elderly grandmother. PLEASE help Jade !!!!!! #familycourt
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
'The law will now require judges to consider the decades of physical abuse and emotional torment faced by these victims' - @David_Challen in his latest blog.
A long overdue and welcome change.
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
Women should not be forced to ‘take the high road’ and tell their children they should respect a violent man because they will always ‘be their father’ - No - blood is not thicker than abuse. We don’t respect violent people. We protect children from violent people.
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
NEW on The Table Read Magazine.
Following her own experiences, @ZDronfield shares how she brought about changes in the law for #domesticabuse, stalking and family court practices in her new book, Mind Over Manipulators.
#bookish
thetablereadmagazine.co.uk/i… via @the_table_read
JayminiSurvivor retweeted
Gaslighting, if it’s done right, by a skilled perpetrator, with the intent to harm, is a form of psychological torture. It is literally crazy-making. It is meant to make one doubt their own perception of reality and their trust in themselves. Gaslighting is a tactic of torture.