This is totally performative obviously. These TikTok women have no identity or interior lives of their own. Everything they do and say is fake. That said, I guarantee this lady has one kid and the worst thing that happened to her today is the kid cried for a little bit. Meanwhile the house is a filthy mess while she sits around scrolling and making retarded videos like this one. The amount of whining and relentless self-pitying and self-martyrdom that goes on with these women on TikTok is truly grotesque and out of control. At a certain point you just have to get over yourself and go handle your relatively minor stresses like an adult. But nobody in this woman’s life will ever tell her that. They’ll all just “affirm” her as she treats the slightest irritation like a terminal cancer diagnosis. This is the problem. A whole lot of people in our culture need a whole lot less affirmation. “We need to take her feelings seriously!” Uh no we don’t. She needs to grow up.