In a fast-changing world, knowledge alone is no longer the advantage.
The game has shifted. It’s no longer a predictable chessboard where you calculate ten moves ahead. It’s a squash court, dynamic, reactive, and constantly in motion.
Being single is not simply the time between relationships.
It can be the space where you finally understand who you are without another person defining you.
What went wrong last time?
Which patterns do you keep repeating?
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This week, I released some of my earliest writing on Substack: the very first part of Solve for Happy, about the Happiness Equation.
I’m now posting almost every week, I hope you follow me there: mogawdat.substack.com
Understanding your partner’s biological cycle is not about excusing every emotion or assuming that everything she feels is hormonal.
It is about context.
Intelligence, artificial or otherwise, is a force with no polarity. You can use it for good and create something that changes the world. You can use it for evil and build a dystopia for all of us.
We run thoughts over and over in our heads because we've made a fundamental mistake, we think the voice in there is us, talking to us. And if it's us, it must be worth listening to.
Love connects us.
Compassion turns that connection into action. It asks us not only to recognise another person’s pain, but to do what we can to reduce it.