InterCagedF4g

In Defence of Findom, It’s well known many people disaprove of findom and paid for online D/s. Typical arguments might be, it takes advantage of vulnerable people, it’s unethical, addicting and objectifys both SWs and clients. The above can be true at times for sure to a greater or lesser extent, rightly or wrongly, but why can it be a force for good too? One great thing is sexual convenience, where else can lonely, often older, sometimes conventionally unattractive, sometimes socially awkward or those with kinks where there is considerable stigma around find an outlet quickly, easily and yes often (comparared to relationship running costs) affordably find a willing playmate, friend or Dominant to interact with? Is it a bad thing that someone lonely has someone they can chat to, laugh with, share joy with and of course go on a sexual journey with? (And that they can put down at their convenience, by coming off their phone or profile?). Is it bad that people can easily now go on a voyage of erotic and sexual exploration, and visit parts of themselves long denied (no pun intended) or that hitherto they did not know existed? Is it wrong that people can explore transgressive, controversial or otherwise societally inverting spaces, concepts and feelings? Is it wrong that in a frankly tanking economy Dom/mes and SWs can make an entire living or chunky side hustle from their homes with just a phone? Is it wrong that both Dominance and submission games can be deeply cathartic, I would hazard a guess often more effective and affordable than therapy in many cases? Is it bad that we lift up and celebrate a diverse range of tastes, desires and more importantly people, validating the marginalised and allowing different voices to speak up? Yes all these questions and more are of course rhetorical in nature. Not everyone approves, many have their reasons, but findom and online D/s ARE a force for good, and We the Dom/mes as well as they the subs, slaves (the good sincere ones anyway) are the angels of light in a fallen world ❤️