I'll preface this by saying I don't care about this guy, but in general, that's a dangerous take by Natasha Cloud. You can't automatically tell how a man acts with his wife in the house by how he acts in public. I left a DV marriage six years ago. My ex was a horror in the household, but considered nice, cool & friendly in public, even by women. If one were to go by how he acted in public, he'd be considered a saint. This type of mentality needs to be put to rest.