No, it’s that she legally cannot use the men’s. That’s the important distinction. This perfectly sums up the issue with transgender ideology: some people have made a choice & simply expected everyone else to go along with it, their own boundaries & rights be damned. It was always doomed to fail. But, it could be argued, women who claim to be men are in quite the predicament. Testosterone is powerful. The balding & beards does a lot of heavy lifting into making them look like men. Would that be confronting for women & girls in women only spaces? Yep. But this doesn’t mean they default to using men’s spaces. Because they’re not men. Men are more than bald spots & beards. So, what’s a gal to do? For the better part of a decade, transgender activists have had unprecedented political capital which could have been cashed in to get absolutely everything they need & want in society. But they didn’t. They didn’t do anything beyond demanding men into women’s spaces & sport, getting puberty blockers & cross-sex hormones to kids & birth certificate edits to validate their delusion. Women who claim to be men rarely got a mention outside of celebrating the miracle of “pregnant men”. Women who claim to be men have been treated exactly how you would expect women to be treated in a movement dictated by misogynistic men. Now, the activists will deflect & blame everyone else rather than acknowledge their own failures. It shouldn’t be controversial to say that it is possible women who have taken far too much testosterone for their own good do need some special accommodations in society. Who knows, no one has properly looked into it. But it seems likely. While women who claim to be men can *legally* use women only spaces, because they are women, whether it’s functional for them to do so is probably a case by case basis, and a choice they have to make. Is there enough of a problem to warrant third spaces? I would argue yes, as there is an overall social good to be had by having a third unisex stall/bathroom available beyond M, F & disabled options. It could be used by Dad’s with daughters, women who claim to be men, all those women who apparently love unisex spaces, etc. When it comes to bathrooms/changerooms, women & disabled people campaigned for what we needed with far less political influence than trans activists have enjoyed, we got what we actually need, and we’re not giving it up. 99.9% of society is not trying to reject their sex & society should not be restructured around the ones who are. Laws based on biological sex work. For the minority desperate to live a lie, campaign for what you need, just don’t blame us that activists had 10 years to do it but invested most of their time in mainstreaming the concept of a “girl dick”.