When you change for the better, particularly when it's visible - new style, new body, renewed outlook on life - it is often the case that you'll be met with mixed feelings by those closest to you.
There's this weird apprehension knowing the boy or girl you've known for years, perhaps even grown up with, is changing into something you can't recognize. They want to feel good for you, but they also don't want you to go too far - lest it reveal their own inadequacies.
Everyone thinks the people who make it are just luckier or smarter or born into the right situation. But that's not what you see up close.
What you actually see is someone who fixed a problem nobody asked them to fix.
Who stayed when every reasonable person would have left. Who went back to being a complete beginner after already winning. Who said the same thing seventeen different ways until one of them finally landed.
It was never luck. It was just someone who refused to stop doing the thing until the thing worked. And then everyone called it luck.
Writing is a life hack:
Outlining teaches you how to plan and organize yourself.
Drafting teaches you how to let go of perfection and produce.
Editing teaches you how to refine and remove the unnecessary.
The impact this small habit can have on your life is immeasurable.

