💎Inside Out💎

This post is for young men. As a 57 year old guy who has dated a lot of beautiful women over the past 40 years, here are my top 3 tips when it comes to choosing a woman: - The #1 most important quality in a woman is the capacity to let go. Choose a girl you can emotionally reset instantly with a hug, a kiss on the forehead, or sex. The quicker you can flip her from a bad mood to neutral/happy, the easier she will be to deal with in a long term relationship. The opposite of this is girls who carry around resentment. Their inability to be in the present moment with you without replaying past hurts in their minds will gradually kill the relationship. The worst thing in the world is being with a woman who resents you. But always remember that many women resent by nature. If she can shift or let go or forgive quickly, the relationship will have a ground of peace - Choose orgasmic women. There's a massive correlation between how orgasmic a woman is and how easy to deal with she is in general. You can look at this through many lenses, from the amount of tension/stress she carries, to Reichs theories of armoring and orgiastic potential, to anything else. It doesn't matter really, it's just true. If she struggles to orgasm, she will also struggle to receive or appreciate you in all ways. Also, the lack of regular deep orgasms means her nervous system remains stuck and never truly resets deeply. A lot of men put this burden on themselves. But the truth is you can do exactly the same thing with 2 different girls. The first can have 3 intense orgasms just from penetration and the second can have zero. Don't struggle and become responsible for something that was never your problem. Pick a girl whose body can receive you and her mind will too - Choose infinitely flexible women. She should be happy to live with you anywhere, in almost any living situation. The important thing is that she identifies, at the deepest level, that you are her home. Not a place, not a specific environment. You. The more she grasps this intuitively, the less she will be fixated on less important attachments and materialistic nonsense in her mind, and again, the easier she will be to deal with, the less hard you will need to work to satisfy her arbitrary mental expectations, and consequently the faster you can make her the mother of your children. There's nothing more romantic than a girl telling you "I don't care where in the world we are, I just want to be with you" Women with these 3 qualities are usually great and marryable. And you'll know it pretty fast. Likewise, the lack of these qualities signals great danger Good luck!