"I’ve used a fake name and email address because Ms Murray is a vicious woman who will try to destroy me." "She is very publicly anti-trans and homophobic. Some will recognise her ... you can quite clearly see her campaign of hate." Those are direct quotes from one of three anonymous complaints made about me after I stated publicly that human beings cannot change sex. This complaint has, in effect, destroyed the beautiful choir I created - something I poured my own time, money and resources into. It has damaged friendships too. I think it was @salltweets who said that, with trans ideology, the opposite is typically true of everything that is said. This feels like a perfect example. An anonymous complainant made allegations that have damaged my reputation - and helped destroy something positive I created, not just for myself but for others. Yet they claim they cannot reveal their identity - because I might destroy them.