If there’s one thing this man has never done is bring our crying child to me to pacify
Wait for me to change her or bath her
Wait for me to feed her
Even when I hear her crying and I rush, you’d just hear him say
“Why are you here, please go back and watch your tv, I’ve got her “
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One of the major reasons I was able to get through pregnancy was literally cause of this man..
Man was there every step of the way
- My first few months was plagued by Tiredness, Dizziness, Nausea etc
Even the thought of certain meals triggered my nausea, I was always too tired to do anything
- The nausea subsided during the third month but I had to still be really careful cause I was easily nauseated
- For the cramps, it lasted a month or two, really painful, I couldn’t do much
- Bitter tongue lasted the entire duration of the pregnancy, the first few months was really uncomfortable, it’s just something you never really get used to
- By the 3rd month, I developed severe pains underneath my feet, it made walking difficult, there was no night this man didn’t massage my feet with Rob, nerve & bone etc just to subside the pain, it helped.. Every single night, man never missed the feet massage, if I even wake up at night to pee, he’d jump up just to assist me walk, he was consistent
The first trimester, I was always tired, to an extent, I was near bedridden, I couldn’t do much, had to close my business, it was really uncomfortable.. it didn’t matter if I was pumping my systems with blood tonic😭
- The worst of it all was my constant itching down below😭😭ran multiple test, same thing, “Changed my panties, at some point i had to stop wearing them, still, I could heal from it this week only for it to be back the following week, I avoided this man again…. What annoyed me the most was when I was told, it was as a result of my pregnancy 😭😭😭, even got immune booster cause according to the doctor, my immune system was weak and we needed it to fight off the bacteria infection, still, it was a repeated cycle, one grateful part was “there was no smell”😮💨 this lasted for 3 months plus
- Back pain, waist pain, arghhhhhh, I can’t even explain, to even turn on the bed was war, we even got orthopedic mattress still yet, nothing… it was excruciating 😮💨
7th month birthed a new form of painful experience, pelvic and bumbum pain, I couldn’t turn properly, sit for too long and I’d be unable to walk… back pain intensified 😮💨
Not Antenatal was missed by him, it didn’t matter if he had work, he’d be seated next to me, one ear plugged in for his meeting, the other open to listen to the nurses
Every step of the way, man was constant, the little things like holding my hands, helping me up when want to stand without being told, waking up night after night for massage, never missed massaging my feet plus hot water treatment, never missed insertion for the itching
All I had to do was be interested in a particular food, fruits, snack, man will rush to buy it
It wasn’t an easy journey, but man made it easy before and after birth and still making life easy till date
This man will be 30 soon, and my heart is in so much glee for this moment🥺










