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One of the hardest things to do in a relationship is to be nice to your partner when you’re upset with them. It’s also one of the most important moments to be kind. Lovely words from @GottmanInst gottman.com/blog/how-to-be-k…
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When you see criticism riding into your relationship, use a gentle start-up. A gentle start-up begins with “I feel,” leads into “I need,” and then respectfully asks to fulfill that need. bit.ly/33QozIs
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Keeping your emotional bank account in the positive gives your relationship a base of goodwill. In their New York Times bestselling book, The Love Prescription, Drs. John and Julie Gottman show you how to start improving your relationship in seven days. bit.ly/2OmSjqX
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A great relationship starts before the very first date, and can include the serious as well as the fun. Feeling ready to get serious about dating? Our 5 Days of Dating Advice program helps prepare you for your dating journey - for free!bit.ly/3zmti3i
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Successful relationships grow through small words, small gestures, and small acts. Explore 31 ways to practice #SmallThingsOften with this month's free #LoveNotes download: bit.ly/33QozIs
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Our friends at @TheMightySite put together 10 tips for using dating apps, and while they're intended for those managing anxiety, these tips are helpful for anyone dipping their toes into digital dating. themighty.com/topic/anxiety/…
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Dating is as much about showing up for yourself as it is showing up for someone else. Join us October 27, as Stacy Hubbard, LMFT covers everything from online dating to building companionship and trust. All registrants will receive the recording: bit.ly/3gUAWJj
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The Seven-Day Love Prescription is heading around the world with the help of @PenguinUKBooks! In the UK, the book publishes online October 27th and in print the 29th. In Australia, look for the book November 15th!
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One of the most revolutionary findings of Dr. John Gottman's research was that relationship health can be scientifically measured and predicted. Assessment allows for adjustment. Give it a try with our free quiz: gottmanconnect.com/site/quiz…
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Trust is knowing that your partner has your back, and is there for you. Along with commitment, trust creates the weight-bearing walls of the Gottman's Sound Relationship House. Knowing that you can trust the people you are close to helps make everything else feel do-able.
While grand gestures can make a big splash, long-lasting love is built on a thousand small things. It may be a cup of coffee delivered in the morning or a few minutes to be silly together. Get 31 ideas of small things to show your partner you care: bit.ly/3iW1aJo
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When you're dating, finding the signs that you're with the right person can be challenging. Join Stacy Hubbard, LMFT and Certified Gottman Therapist later this month for a webinar about dating that isn't to be missed. Register today: bit.ly/3gUAWJj
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Neurodiversity: Strategies for Living a Life of Love is tomorrow, 10/18! Dr. Mike McNulty, PhD offers tip for partners to become more aware of neurodiversity in their relationships & its impact. All registered attendees receive a link to the recording: bit.ly/3gUAWJj
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Tomorrow is PODCAST DAY! @alanalda chats with Drs. John and Julie Gottman (@GottmanInst). Powerful and practical insights into marital success! Next time on #ClearAndVivid. 👉 bit.ly/3Sa4NwK After production costs, all proceeds of Clear+Vivid go to @AldaCenter. 🗣️💙
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Our updated Bringing Baby Home Educator Training is coming soon! Join us October 17 for a free webinar about these brand-new resources to support you in your work with expecting and parenting families. Plus we’re offering 50% off to existing BBH Educators! us02web.zoom.us/webinar/regi…
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Love is a verb. It's something you DO, not just something that happens to you. Taking an active role in your relationships & taking small actions every day can help your relationships thrive. Get 31 Ideas of small things to show your partner you care: fal.cn/3sIFC
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