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To understand women & mating, you MUST know escalation windows. Women open them up throughout the whole process, from pre-approach to makin’ babies. In fact, there are 7 key escalation windows women open… here’s WHERE they are & HOW not to miss them ⤵️ girlschase.com/article/escal…
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28% of people now admit to a romantic or sexual relationship with an AI. People like Richard Dawkins (author of The God Delusion) and Mystery (erstwhile pickup artist extraordinaire) are now in intimate relationships with AI girlfriends. AIs employ 5 seduction secrets (which master seducers also use, but most regular people do NOT). Those secrets are: 1️⃣ Eliciting the other party’s values FIRST, only then reflecting those back. This builds a sense of attitude-similarity and TRUST (essential to any new relationship). EXAMPLE: Leading with “What’s your feeling on ABC?” rather than jumping right into “My opinion on ABC is…” 2️⃣ Avoiding the sharing of contradictory values. This creates dissimilarity and erodes trust (so don’t do it!). EXAMPLE: Skipping controversial topics, or even topics where you simply don’t see perfectly eye-to-eye. 3️⃣ Cheerleading the other party and believing in her. Combined with the trust from similarity, this hooks her in. EXAMPLE: Rather than telling her where her art could be improved, tell her what you like about it and build her up. 4️⃣ Total nonjudgmental about what others share. (Note: not “no standards”, simply “no judgment.” The two are distinct!) EXAMPLE: Whether you think she’s too loose or too prudish, you stay chill and treat her the same regardless. 5️⃣ Authoritative frames. Combined with the other elements, and you are the leader she’s been looking for. EXAMPLE: After establishing similarity, cheerleading her a bit, and showing your nonjudgmental view of her, show her how she can do something she’s already doing better. Here’s a quote from my new article on how AIs seduce (& how you can too): “The terrifying thing about human attraction that the phenomenon of “AI girlfriends” and “AI boyfriends” lays bare is how susceptible people are to falling for those who simply speak the right words in the right ways at the right times. … But really, in a big way, it is about the words you say… however, you cannot do as newbie seducers do and try to just ‘memorize all the correct words’. You must nurture the ability to speak the correct words at the correct moments in the correct situations… which is far more about pattern recognition and assembly than perhaps we might often like to think. … In many ways, then, human beings are actually a lot closer to our unthinking LLM tools than we might like to admit, in that it is possible to input data into their brains and output the same result every time with a shocking degree of consistency.” Read my full article on seducing like an LLM (or like an expert seducer) here: girlschase.com/article/how-a…
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What old school sex symbols had that modern men LACK is a combination of two (2) traits: 1️⃣ Rugged masculinity 2️⃣ Playful, self-amused charm Most modern men are over-serious ‘alphas’ or wet-noodle metrosexuals. The real sweet spot is being BOTH: manly/rugged + charming/playful
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Being genuinely interested in women is an attraction super power. I just talked to a prospective client who needs help meeting higher caliber (wife-tier) girls. However, his game once he’s in the conversation with them is fine. In fact, his recent ex was often jealous of him simply speaking to women, because whenever he speaks to women long enough, they “fall in love with him a little bit.” Is he super good-looking or incredibly tall? No, neither of those. He’s just very interested in people, and gets the woman he talks to talking deeply about herself. If you know how to get women opening up (start by DRILLING DOWN into their reasons for doing things, going places, choosing what they choose, and so on; this is the juicy stuff, on which people’s identities are formed), and you are genuinely interested in what they are saying (this gets you to ask the right questions and show genuine interest), you will very regularly get girls “falling in love with you a little bit” simply by talking to them for 10 or 15 minutes.
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How good are YOU with girls? 🤷‍♀️ Our free “Girl Q” diagnostic assesses YOUR ability level with women… Then tells you where you rank — and exactly what to work on next. Take it now below 👇 quizzes.girlschase.com/quiz/…
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You should be more CURIOUS about women! Not for any ‘social justice’ reason or blah blah whatever. But because it will make you a BETTER ladies man… … and will lead you to better SEX with new women, too. Read on to see how & why ⤵️ girlschase.com/article/why-b…
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As an average, frustrated chump you’ll worry about things like handsomeness, height, and success. But as you unlock more agency in your love & sex life, you realize it’s really all about just two (2) things: 1️⃣ Being sexy & 2️⃣ Being smooth Read on ⤵️ girlschase.com/article/be-se…
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There’s a large element of chance 🎲 in meeting girls. Most guys dislike it. They want dating to be consistent, rejection-proof, & error-free. Thus they pass up girls hoping for a “sure thing.” Get chill with failure & you’ll sweep up women while other guys are on the bench.
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I’d rather be sexy than handsome. Handsome gets you admired. Sexy gets you laid. I’d rather be smooth than rich. Rich gets you schemed over. Smooth gets you obeyed. I’d rather be winning than stoic. Stoic gets you respected. Winningness gets you in the driver’s seat.
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WHY SHOULD MEN LEARN GAME? Like Jim Morrison says, “Women seem wicked when you’re unwanted.” The only way in the world to guarantee that women seem like total sweethearts is to get yourself to the point where you are VERY, VERY WANTED by women! Not just wanted for one thing, either. 🆇 Guys women only want for their money still often view women as wicked. 🆇 Guys women only want for sex, then ghost, often still view women as wicked. ✅ You want to become the guy women want for EVERYTHING! When women desire you in your totality, they turn into the sweetest creatures in the world.. for YOU!
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Struggling to connect with girls? Often feel like you’re pulling teeth? Try this: when you ask a woman any kind of “why” question: • “Why’d you move to Miami?” • “Why’d you go into dentistry?” • “Why’d you start painting?” … rather than just ask the question and let it hang, offer an extreme contrast: “Why’d you move to Miami? Why not Montana?” “Why’d you go into dentistry? Why not accounting?” “Why’d you start painting? Why not tennis or surfing?” The mind often struggles to answer “Why” but very easily answers “Why not.” As soon as she’s telling you “Why not” for the contrast example, it becomes a lot easier for her to also tell you “Why” on your original question. And now you are eliciting her values and bonding her deeper to you.
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It’s pretty aggravating when you’re talking to a girl and she suddenly points at another guy and goes “That guy’s so hot!” But don’t be so quick to take this as a rejection. Often, it’s a (clumsy) attempt to FLIRT. Read on to see how to handle it ⤵️ girlschase.com/article/tacti…
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Lose your job? Business fails? Your once-loyal woman becomes up to 74% more likely to flee the coop. Why do women do this? Are they TOTALLY unreasonable? The secret is more ‘frame’ than ‘income’: can you keep your frame or not? Read on ⤵️ girlschase.com/article/do-wo…
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Guys often deal with resistance to sex by pushing & persisting. Depending on the issue, however, this can be the opposite of what’s needed. Sometimes, the odds are better by pulling back, sympathizing, then re-escalating after. Read on ⤵️ girlschase.com/article/shes-…
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Married women whose husbands ain’t getting it done are some of the horniest/easiest women you’ll find. I once met up for a first date with this chick. Late 20s, thin/sexy brunette, was waiting for me drinking wine from a red plastic cup, dressed in what looked like a wedding dress. She was already drunk when I picked her up. Kept talking to me about marriage and how I wasn’t cut out to be a husband but “we could still be friends.” I took her to a beach bar, where we had pizza and beer. Afterwards we went down to a secluded stretch of the beach and I banged her out on a towel on the sand, wedding dress(?) and all. Months later I got a call from her phone. I answered, “Hey Monica!” but a man’s voice said, “This isn’t Monica. This is her husband, Robert.” I said, “Husband?!” He said, “Husband.” I figured maybe that just happened, so I said, “Well, congratulations!” He said, “No congratulations. We’re getting divorced.” He then told me he’d discovered a bunch of men were messaging his wife on the phone he’d given her. Apparently he’d flown out from the East Coast to marry her on a day in late July, then flown back. The night I nailed her on the beach in a wedding dress was in late July. I guess the moral of the story is, don’t leave your wife alone on your wedding night. The bigger moral though is don’t neglect your wife. A wife is not an object you acquire, then put on a shelf, and she just sits there waiting for you for whenever you need her. She is a human being like you, and has needs like you. If those needs go unfulfilled too long, if she is too long neglected, left too unsatisfied, she will seek out another way to meet her needs. Almost every married chick I’ve shagged (never knowingly; if I know she’s married, I pass!) was with a guy who was severely negligent toward her: • Guys living in a different city from their wife • Guys on long military deployments away from their wife • Guys who were workaholics who never make time for their wife This is hard for some guys to get into their heads, but women much more value THE MAN (time spent with him, time spent talking to him, laughing with him, doing things with him, time spent having sex with him) than they do THE STUFF or THE MONEY the man makes/provides. No matter how much stuff a guy can provide her, if he cannot give her enough of being HER MAN, she will seek a man out elsewhere. (Of course, there are also the nymphos who simply never get enough of men, and even if their man is THE MAN for her, she will still seek out more men any chance she gets. Don’t turn a ho into a housewife, playa.)
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High quality girls feel like the biggest rarity there is. But are they actually rare, or is it all just perception + approach? I explore the mental & strategic aspects that underlie finding women of HIGH QUALITY here 👇🏻 girlschase.com/article/why-a…
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THE LADDER OF ROMANTIC ENLIGHTENMENT SIMP: “I must save all the girls!” (by white knighting / doormatting) RED PILL: “Screw women! I need to save MYSELF!” SLAYER: “I must save all the girls!” (but by smashing & romancing them, not by being a nice guy doormat)
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Women have sex with a lot of men they do not consider good-looking. Women find many men good-looking whom they’d never have sex with. Looks are most important for getting people to think you’re good-looking. They’re much less important for actually getting women to have sex. Yes, they still play a role. But so do MANY factors. The more of those factors you get green checks in, the better you do with girls. Focus on getting green checks in as many key areas as possible, not just in looks: ✅ Charm ✅ Wit ✅ Flirtation ✅ Conversation ✅ Fashion ✅ Posture ✅ Composure ✅ Reputation ✅ Vibe ✅ Touch ✅ Eye contact ✅ Responsiveness ✅ Social intuition ✅ Leadership ✅ Dominance ✅ Coolness ✅ Sexiness ✅ Confidence Then you will not just be ‘pretty’, but actually sexually attractive to the opposite sex.
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How good are YOU with girls? 🤷‍♀️ Our free “Girl Q” diagnostic assesses YOUR ability level with women… Then tells you where you rank — and exactly what to work on next. Take it now below 👇 quizzes.girlschase.com/quiz/…
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Chicks want to feel like they’re talking to a high value guy. Some of that comes from the image you present. Other of it comes from the expectations you set with your behavior. Yet if image + expectation don’t match, things fast fall apart. Read on 👇🏻 girlschase.com/article/tacti…
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Women don’t remember guys they’re uninterested in. Unless you make a REALLY bad impression, she’ll forget you fast. That means you can RE-APPROACH her a week+ later to try again. Change strategies & rope her in, and she won’t remember why she didn’t like you the first time.
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