Sex. Psychology. Culture. Connection. Created by @Kayden_Kross

Joined May 2026
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Meet Eat Me Cookies, one of our Gasplighting partners. Founded by sisters Maddie and Beth Barnett, Eat Me Cookies is a Charleston-based brand creating custom cookie cakes, cookies and wearable treats that range from sweet to wildly NSFW. #Gasplighting #Gasplit #EatMeCookies
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How do you market a toy when you’re not allowed to market a toy? Kayden and Katie from Banana Split talk censorship, social media rules and the impossible gray area sexual wellness brands are forced to navigate online. #Gasplighting #Gasplit #BananaSplit
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The people we choose can become mirrors — reflecting back the parts of ourselves we’re ready to understand more deeply. Kayden talks BDSM, self-discovery and the way intimacy can open us up to ourselves with Master Cat NYC founder and CEO of Kink Collective #Gasplighting
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Pt. 2 Your desire does not need to be easy for other people to understand in order to be real. #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Pt. 1 BDSM is often misunderstood, pathologized or reduced to something people need to “explain.” But desire is more complicated than that; and consent, communication, boundaries and agency change the entire conversation. #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Meet Epiphany, one of our Gasplighting partners. Epiphany is dedicated to intensifying pleasure, with a clitoral arousal serum designed to help you get to orgasm — whether solo or with a partner. Welcome to Gasplighting. #Gasplighting #Gasplit #Epiphany
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Epiphany is joining the movement. Epiphany is focused on making pleasure feel more intentional, approachable and centered on her experience. Welcome to Gasplighting. #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Eat Me Cookies is joining the movement. 🍪💖 @eatmecookiecakes is a custom cookie brand bringing playful, bold and conversation-starting designs to the Gasplighting experience. Welcome to Gasplighting. #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Gasplighting comes to LA. Join us October 16 + 17 at Wonzimer Gallery for an immersive gallery experience exploring body literacy, intimacy, desire, autonomy and the stories we’ve been told. More details at gasplighting.com #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Meet Bellesa, one of our Gasplighting partners. #Gasplighting #Gasplit #Bellesa
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Gasplighting is the conversations we’re not having. Kayden breaks down the assumptions people make about sex, desire and where our preferences “come from” on We Should Date. Watch the full episode on YouTube. #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Meet Banana Split, one of our Gasplighting partners🍌 Want 15% off? Make sure you’re following @gasplighting on Instagram and comment “BANANA SPLIT” on our recent post — we’ll DM you the code. #Gasplighting #Gasplit #BananaSplit
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New partner incoming 👀 #bellesaplus
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A brief tutorial on the cl*t, a body part shrouded in mystery and misunderstanding but evolutionarily important enough that it’s still around. Pt. 1 #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Sex has always been part of the story, even when history tried to leave it out.  @museumofsex #Gasplighting #Gasplit
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Spotted in NYC: Kayden Kross talking Deeper, Gasplighting and the conversations we’re finally having out loud. #Gasplighting #Gasplit #Deeper
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